We do a nanny share. We haven’t had any headaches dealing with the other families, but our arrangement has been that the nanny deals directly with each family. She determines her schedule, she collects money from each family, and if a family leaves the share she finds another family to join. That has worked really…

That’s smart. I hope this professor doesn’t give you any more trouble. :(

Ugh, that sucks. As a professor, I agree with the others that you should let someone in authority know what happened. That professor needs to be firmly told, at a minimum, that he/she can’t do that again. Or possibly face some other kind of repercussion.

I’m so sorry, I have been there and it sucks. My advice is to do whatever you need to get through this next period in your life. Don’t beat yourself up if you are minimally functioning for a while. And ask for whatever support you need from any and everyone who can offer it. I had some friends who took me in and were…

This is an amazing idea! Or a coffee table type book.