I dunno what he’s on but it must be great.

And the whole outgoing interview where the women are essentially forced to say, “Yeah I really enjoyed simulated (or not) rape!” is so cynical. It’s cause they know it’s fucking rape they’re showing and getting off on. It’s fucking disgusting. And it’s directly related to how that dude used the whole, “we both liked…

and this type of “sex” aka rape is being normalized to women and girls and men and boys who watch this shit. 

Do we ever speak of the consumer end of this? The audience for humiliation, violation and abuse? What does this say about us as a whole? How do we change? Where is our responsibility?

Love the hair colour!!!

I had to learn this the hard way...

WE HEARD THE HEARTBEAT THIS WEEK!!!!!!

Thank you! I’ve found with baking, a lot of it is finding recipes you can’t fail at. And when you do fail, eating the failures and telling no one.

Still in recovery mode from my surgery, but I had my stitches out Thursday and they said everything looks good. I overdid it a bit yesterday and I’m kinda sore and cranky today - I rode the bus and the driver started moving before I was seated and I really can’t catch myself with my arms, ouch. These next couple of…

Hey...we’re always here :) Do what you need to do to take the best care of yourself.

My resolution for 2019 is to become recognized and certified as a roller derby referee by WFTDA (Women’s Flat Track Derby Association, governing body of the sport). The recognition will be pretty easy - some self-led modules on the website, then a test. Getting certified involves getting evaluations from other…

I’m glad you have a friend to stay with right now. I have no real advice, but I thought of this quote when I read your post:

Blanchie is so cute, poor baby. I hope it all goes well. Love your hair colour btw. 

I’m confident I will never be as fancy as those bouffant chickens, and I am fine with that.

So hey everyone! Let’s manifest a great new year! White lady woo!

What’s everyone cooking/baking? I used to make a lot of bread, it was my hobby, but for whatever reason it really fell off last year. This is my first bread of the year, sesame semolina. Although I had less sesame seeds than I thought, so it’s half sesame, half millet.

Hi Jezzies happy New Year.. I hope we all have a wonderful, loving and positive one. I know we all may not do but let’s all remember that we are all here for each other and always seem to help each other through the crap. Also please remember people that are homeless and struggling.. it’s cold most places.. in the uk…

YAY I WAS PUBLISHED ON JEZEBEL! All that throwing up and vodka was worth it for this moment! (It was not.)

To quit smoking. I still need to do this. I did it once, when i was 30 for six months, but not as a new years resolution, more for a guy, and then he broke my heart and i started smoking again because I wanted to have quit for myself, not him. But before I got around to quitting again my sister died, and then my dog…

Journaling is my most commonly failed resolution. I have several nice journals with one long entry a few smaller sporadic entries and then a shopping list or two until it is abandoned.