spoonfedkitty01
spoonfedkit
spoonfedkitty01

As a guy, that wouldn't bother me. If an app designer really wanted to get women to use a hookup/dating app, this would be the first thing to do. I think most women would like to not be bombarded with hundreds of creeps asking them for pics/sending unsolicited dick pics/etc. If the guys had to put their pics up and

So not any woman, then, any woman who meets your definition of average attractiveness and isn't past a certain age. But even that isn't true.

This might be a bit tangential, but I'm a gay female and I always joke with my friends that I'll invent a Grindr/Growler-esque app called "Meowler."

False.

That's definitely untrue.

If they're attractive and aggressive then they probably don't. They could just go to a bar.

God damn it now I have to watch Supernatural to know exactly what eps this came from.

Yes. I'm just really friendly and try to show interest in my coworkers.

HAS HUMANKIND LEARNED NOTHING FROM PAST ATROCITIES?

Yeah, I know exactly what you're talking about, bro. I see some ladies in some reeeeaaaallll fiiiiiiinnnneeee clothing, I do. And you know what I give them ladies? I deliver them some respect I would give any other woman in a professional setting because I don't need my women swathed in layers of heavy cloth to keep

I think this might be the lazy version of that look, like tank tops that come pre-layered.

Could you not just wear tights under shorts for this look?

If you sense that you could start unconsciously flirting

The idea that you are obligated to work it out with them personally, privately enrages me. It totally ignores the power imbalance (real or perceived) and the vulnerability of the person being harassed. I was once sexually harassed by a coworker who was my immediate supervisor and when I went to report it was a)

And, oh my gosh, have you seen the way the men in offices dress these days? All those clingy polo shirts and flat front pants, leaving nothing to the imagination. Not even a jacket to cover things up a bit. And I don't have to tell you what happens when fall comes and they all break out the v-neck sweaters.

"is that it once again implies that women are responsible for how men behave and what men think."

OR an article giving men advice on not misconstruing normal politeness or pleasantness as romantic interest.

This is so true. I've never seen any article or advice advising men to avoid behaving in a way that might be misinterpreted as romantic interest.

I think maybe you're just a little excitable...

"Dial it back... around men in whom you sense discomfort." EFF YOU MOTHER EFFER!!!!! Twenty years in the workforce, gillions of shiatty cubicle jobs, and NOT ONCE have I seen a maneater a'la Demi Moore in "Disclosure" making those poor fragile lil menfolk uncomfortable. Not. Once. Oh I am sure she exists somewhere but