"They can't help it, when they gotta go, they gotta go."

She can run around inside for hours at a time, doesn't poop on the hardwood.

I just don't let my dog shit on a walk.

I just want a button where I can push it and Mitt Romney will go away.

What are you even arguing here, seriously.

Enthusiastic consent isn't a made-up notion. It's a pretty good practice to prevent situations exactly like the one we're all talking about where one party didn't want sex but couldn't express it. It's always possible to say "Yes yes fuck yes!" but not always possible to say "No no definitely no I don't mean 'no but…

Being intoxicated doesn't remove responsibility for an offense. Otherwise we could all get drunk and go on a murder spree.

Good for you, sounds like you consented just fine. Congrats on your sex life?

Pretty sure that, given her story is accurate, he wanted to put his penis inside her. I don't see how that would make him a victim.

If you don't think that pot causes changes in judgement and perception, then you're just wrong. It does. There's science there. You can argue the degree to which it does, but to say that it has no effect is just wrong.

"Not tonight" seems pretty definitive, and "ugh fine" doesn't seem like a response that gets the blood flowing. Enthusiastic consent isn't just a good line, it's sexy.

To a non-rapey person, yes. Yes there is that requirement. Consent can't be ambiguous.

Not just the pressure — is everyone not reading the part where she's really fucking high at the time? An 8 / 10 on the really fucking high scale?

It's not enthusiastic consent, and it's not consent period when the victim was high and had already expressed unease.

Well that's why "enthusiastic consent" is the standard, not just saying "OK".

In this case it's analogous. Ascribing mental issues to women is a tactic that's been used for a long time to oppress them.

Is it ever okay to use a slur to refer to a person of colour?

Clearly because you're crazy!

Is there something wrong with being feminine?

One of my friends reactivated recently. I had no idea until he posted something.