I am always really interested in this reasoning. I realized that Julia Roberts or anyone who is not married is not “bound” by a vow but in terms of a social contract, when you realized someone is in a relationship, why wouldn’t you beg off. Shouldn’t there be some accountability for that?

Agreed, especially since there was such a huge power differential there. Roberts knew that pictures of her wearing the shirt and her side of the story would get enormous publicity due to her being a huge star. And people would likely be more sympathetic to her with her America’s sweetheart persona. Vera, in contrast,…

I can see that as being valid grounds. It’s just too bad these people don’t have a better filter.

They’re just not sure how else to espresso themselves.

I thought it was Aloe Vera?

Agreed. Good on Julia for coming up with the most convoluted, and yet somehow extremely cruel, insult I can honestly, without hyperbole, say I have ever seen. Not the cruelest, by far. But incoherently cruel? Yes.

I’ve never promised not to make fun of people with disabilities. It’s still fucked up if I do. We’ve long decided in our society that you’re held to certain social contracts whether you choose to sign on the dotted line or not. I wish people would quit with this non-argument.

Yes.

I signed in to say the same exact thing. Forget about the cheating, shit happens and who knows the details of the story. But there is NO reason to harass the wife to the entire world by wearing that shirt. From that point on I realized “America’s Sweetheart” was a grade A asshole.

Well, I’d say that if you are a person who willingly sleeps with a married person, you don’t have a great deal of integrity (or compassion for the other spouse in the equation).

I was going to say the exact same thing. People with any kind of a code do not sleep with someone else’s spouse.

But who is the pretty actress?

I'd say that not knowingly sleeping with a married person is part of the social contract.

In my experience, it’s always the person who is vocally against marriage/children who acquires one or both of those items with a new person in the ensuing months of the break up.

• Newly separated Jon Hamm and Jennifer Westfeldt are going through a “rough” patch. [Us Weekly]

Hell, even if there isn’t more to this story, I still say, “Fuck Julia Roberts.”

I won’t call her out on the affair—he broke vows, she didn’t. She owes nothing to another person’s marriage. That said, the way she taunted the first wife was borderline sociopathic.

Ms. Holmes and Mr. Foxx

Word. There is literally no “more to the story” that would justify that whole shirt business. Trashy.

After Julia Roberts started dating that married dude and then went around wearing a shirt rubbing it in the wife’s face, FUCK Julia Roberts. I’m sure there’s more to the story but still, not classy.