I’ve been burned by coworkers who I thought were just ranting about work like friends, but then ran to the boss and talked shit about all the stuff I was saying. This has happened more than once, so I trust NO ONE at work. I keep a strict professional line, especially towards management and basically just keep to…

I’d say just enjoy the great laughs at work and let it happen, whatever gradual plans may carefully unfold (spontaneously at best), but I caution against the disappointment that can arise from making friends with someone whose “dance card is full,” especially when your own dance card is also quite full. Anyway, ugh,…

The people pushing prop 8, yes, definitely. But keep in mind that Something like 1.5million people both votes for prop 8 and Obama, and it’s really hard to believe that those people-as well as the rest of the 52% who voted for 8-are “filled with hate”. Stupid, maybe. Easily led, possibly. Ignorant, perhaps. But…

I guess I’m angry with her because I think she should have been on board from the beginning. I think everyone should have been. I don’t understand how people can hold so much hate in their heart that they would deny people that most basic of human connections - romantic love and marriage.

They are both amazing.

Damn, Selena. Just.....damn.

Barber shops tend do be cheaper (although that is changing) and they usually do a good job of cutting short hair.

Why not? I go to Floyd’s which is a barbershop and I don’t even have a pixie cut or anything like that.

It sounds like he did something right. :)

I also found the complete lack of recognition that Kris may have a sexual identity/preference pretty awful. This was her partner of what 30 years and no recognition of Kris' self-agency? It spoke volumes to me.

THANK YOU! My grandma had two gay children born in the 50’s and “adopted” their friends who were kicked out of their homes. She passed 6 years ago and wanted gay marriage legalized and people to not be so freaked out by trans people.

Blasphemy!

It’s not her previous opinion that leaves me wanting or even where she’s landed now, it’s something that’s missing from the discussion. And I’m willing to concede generational shift. And I’m not begrudging the evolution of ther opinion, which I’m glad has come to where it is.

Rights and respect for me, none for thee.

I’m amazed by the number of people bagging on her here for this. She had a bad opinion, but, here’s the rub: it changed. How are we supposed to be working towards a more equal future if the people we want to talk over to our side can always be shat upon for their previous views?

I’m always amazed that people are surprised at these things. It’s a story old as time. People who are progressive in a major way in one area (And generally just the one that serves them personally) have the total and complete ability to still be late, bigoted, or straight up clueless in other areas.

Her previous boyfriend is a flagrant racist. She doesn’t exactly have a track record for what is known as “good judgment” with dating partners. She likes her men to be ‘wild’ and prone to doing spur of the moment bullshit that gets them in trouble, apparently.

Why can’t she and Keanu just fall in love? Keanu would NEVER smear dog shit!

OK I was not expecting that from the headline. “Hey look at these cool costumes, oh yeah some people got stabbed and stuff but whatever.”

This is so incredibly sad. Carey is an incredible person and really was a picture of the “American Dream”—-grew up in a housing project in the Bronx and went on to undergrad and law school at Harvard. Devoted to public service and giving back to his community.