I wouldn’t even go as far to say he isn’t stupid or senile (he’s over 70 and has a family history of dementia), but that’s beside the point.

Chris (not his real name)

First off, thanks for sharing. You are very brave. Second, I am just so filled with rage at this guy’s response. I assume you made a choice not to use the word “rape” because it might shut him down. But he never owned up. He never said “I sexually assaulted you.” He kept referring to “what happened,” like it was the…

The only “difference” between the two is that one is a better actor.

I admittedly am bringing some of my own history to the table, but is anyone else frustrated by how he refuses to name what he did?

Wow, fantastic piece.

On the subject of joining your partner in the shower...

If this gets Marshawn onto a debate stage where he glowers at Trump or Pence, while eating fistfuls of Skittles, I will start going door-to-door for his campaign tonight.

The ironic thing is that Marshawn Lynch represents everything that chuds used to complain was missing from pro sports. He loves playing football, shows that love with how he plays, is a genuinely interesting and thoughtful person, dislikes and distrusts the media and the more commercial aspects of the sport, and…

I really hated her when she first came out for the overly-saccharine romance*, and for the rampant slut shaming/being mean to other girls that ran through her lyrics. Nothing she’s done since has impressed me, I find her music bland, her lyrics childish, her feminism performative, and she seems like someone I would…

She’s “bad” because she got caught exploiting racist stereotypes and acting like a fair-weather white feminist. I mean, yeah, she gets to “laugh all the way to the bank” because in our racist society we easily recategorize this behavior as good business, but no matter how good her bangers, if you care about…

I like that you brought up Adele, even though I didn’t mention her but sure lets compare the two. They both sing about relationships and exes and Adele manages to sound more mature with each album release (and has actually taken the blame for some failed relationships). I’m not against taylor making money and…

Counter-point: She lied, got caught and is now acting like a petulant teenager over it because she sucks.

You can consider something as sacred and still struggle with it, see also the survey I linked which shows that pretty clearly.

I’m not even involved with the BDSM community but I can still see you’re being a generalisict cunt, mate.

Can you not use the word perpetrator to describe people who self harm (outside of bdsm)? It’s a very rude/stigmatizing way to describe people like me who have self harmed and are usually doing so as a coping mechanism to deal with untreated/unresolved mental health issues or illnesses. Also most people who I know who…

I’m someone who likes rough stuff and went to therapy in part because I felt like a freak because some men I was with told me I was broken/gross/not a real feminist. I struggled for years to deny the things I wanted, even though it comes from a place of fun and adventure, and I’ve had some very healthy, positive…

Does anyone remember what Avatar was about, other than blue people who were somewhat hotter than Smurfs and had a message about... nature, or something

* stunned into silence by this response *

Yeah let me tell you. It takes a lot of manipulation to get a person to the point where a dude can throw away all her birth control pills while a friend films it and then she can have his baby. Just based on this interview, he’s been pushing her boundaries and testing her limits since they first starting dated.…