Sia choosing to put a 12 year old Maddie Zeigler in a cage to dance/fight with a half-naked Shia LaBeouf really bugged me when the music video came out in 2015. And it's one of those decisions that ages worse every year.

Love makes people do stupid things? Seen it so many times in my life to where it’s numbing.

It’s certainly not her fault. I’ve heard too many stories of couples marrying happily and then divorcing 10-15 years later because one half of the couple slipped into alcoholism, drug abuse, etc. 

I got a feel about him. The way he’s invested in claiming the moral high ground. From personal experience I’ve found that’s a giveaway of an abusive personality. They want to use moral superiority as a club to attack their victim’s self-esteem. There’s a reason they always have a solid defense- it’s very well…

Your story reminds me of something I witnessed on public transportation years ago.

I see my comment to the very sad individual below has disappeared.

Twigs told the New York Times that she came forward to make a point: That despite having money, fame, and a strong support system, she still ended up in an abusive relationship. In other words, if it can happen to her, it can happen to anyone.

Really? It’s not a mystery why he’s famous. He was a child actor with pretty good comedic timing, and he managed to successfully transition from child roles to adult ones which doesn’t always happen, and starred in a terrible but incredibly lucrative (at least during the stretch he was involved) film franchise. He’s…

I had to stop reading the NYT article because it felt like I was reading about a past relationship.  The weapon by the bed was a knife not a gun (we were living in the UK and no guns which probably saved my life a number of times).  But, almost everything else... yes.  My ex is now in prison in Eastern Europe for…

I really was rooting for this dude to get his shit together. You can tell looking at him that he has some serious mental health issues, and that he is desperately trying to speak through his weird-ass art. I respect his willingness to be open and strange.

unable to handle “hot-tempered” LaBeouf’s

“Singer FKA Twigs has filed a lawsuit against actor Shia LaBeouf, accusing him of sexual battery, physical assault, and emotional distress”

How come NONE OF THIS is in the headline?

“But when confronted with specific allegations made against him, LaBeouf backtracked. In a separate email, he wrote, “many of these allegations are not true” but that his accusers deserved “the opportunity to air their statements publicly” and that he must “accept accountability” for his actions.”

Disney literally has enough cash to buy the solar system, but even they are afraid of FREEDUMBers to the point that they won’t make a consistent policy or back up their underpaid near-serfs in enforcing it, nor will they bring pressure to bear on the political machine they spent so much time, trouble and money on in…

Just going to reply to myself here:

Does your partner know that you think he’s “disgusting”? Does HE think he’s disgusting (some men certainly do)? Does he understand how much of his future - including finances - is going to based around the “standards of cleanliness” that you’ve decided upon? Is he aware that you feel you do more work than he does?…

They shouldn’t even be open. Stop blaming individuals and START blaming massive corporations and a state and federal government that are failing these workers and failing the population by allowing nonessential businesses like Disney World to open their doors while this pandemic has not even ONCE been under control.

Just spitballin’ here but how about a giant company like Disney lobby that legendary statesman Mitch McConnell to pass a huge relief bill so people who work at Disney didn’t have to risk their lives going to a fucking amusement park during a pandemic. I’m really fucking sick of the bullshit of pitting workers vs. emplo…

My sister and her family went to Disney World the week before Thanksgiving (with about 10-15 other people in my BIL’s family) and my partner’s sister and mom just got back from Disney World on Tuesday.

When I was dating my now husband, I was living at home. I was putting a needle and thread into my bag to take over to his house, so I could sew a button back on his shirt. My mother went nuts: you are not his wife! you do not do anything for him! he can sew on his own buttons!  

It is really bad out there.