I guess when my husband said that he was an advocate for mental health for men and dealing with their suicide epidemic, it was a dog whistle for him saying he wants me to be property.

I think that most sensible people recognize the sexism hurts everybody. MRAs intentionally misconstrue that idea and twist it beyond recognition and rationality.

If you’re a man in the world and you think you’re losing to women because in general you think women have the power in society that you believe belongs to men... congratulations, you’re just self-identified as one of the most pathetic, ineffectual people on the planet.

The problem with your statement is that you’re entirely focused on individuals/individuality, and not systemic patterns. Yeah, individual MRAs are immature, but they are being rewarded for their immaturity. Yes, both individual men and women are assholes or bad people; but there’s a specific stripe of behavior that…

Who? Can you please name these modern feminists as well as give their overall popularity in both the pop and academic world? As well as what specific misandry they are causing.

I think that it’s less that people don’t understand feminism than they don’t *want* to understand feminism.  or that they don’t believe in equality/equity.

Wow, that is an outstandingly bad take.

I find it a lot easier to fight for equality without the extra baggage from the modern young feminists who’ve never really experienced the hardship of the older feminists who paved the way for them.

Wait. You’re mad that young women today don’t have it as hard or worse than the women who came before them? Why did you…

My “stats” are 100 percent accurate (by “stats” I assume you meant some weird shorthand for “statements” rather than “statistics”, since I didn’t pretend to provide those). In any case, I’m happy to be completely certain that you are making equivalences where none exist. Is there a feminist:

Aw, thanks. The second half of this is that we simply (usually) take the side of the person representing our viewpoint. Even though I’m no beauty (and never was), I’ve always felt like I had more in common with a beautiful woman than any man of any stripe.

Like, why don’t you try addressing the things I say rather than just slap a label on me so you can justify being outraged?

“There are plenty [is a tiny, irrelevant fringe] of modern feminists who use it as a platform for misandry just like there are [a large, active and threatening plurality of] MRA’s [many of whom are perpetrators of, or cheer on those who commit violence against women that are abetted by those] who just use it for…

The problem is people always bring that up, blame the women instead of the justice system and never do anything about it. 

I’m a straight man and you’re dumb as a bag of hammers. 

I have it on good authority that every member of Jezebel is a 50' tall, testicle-squishing monster. Here is a rare photo of one of them during a custody hearing:

If you’re an MRA/incel, then that’s what it means. Literally. Do more research on the thing you’re arguing with people about.

Before, women would almost entirely get custody of children eve when the mother was an inadequate parent

The core tenant of your beliefs is the subjugation of women. You literally think women are inferior to men. I only have to visit the front page on any MRA/incel subreddit to see that said plainly.

I’ve always thought most MRA followers and adherents were simply immature. There are plenty of men and women who are supreme assholes. I think when you’re a grown-up, you see good people and bad people (and in-between people), but rarely is it because they’re a man or because they’re a woman.