So easy! I find myself still putting this guy on a pedestal and thinking that he’d be a great boyfriend to someone he actually cared about. Then I get jealous of this hypothetical girl for having such an amazing, loving guy... it’s such a dumb rabbit hole. No clueless, dithering dude is worth feeling so shitty about. P…

OMG, I had a dude tell me in front of all my library’s customers that “I make up answers” when i couldn’t get a lady who spoke Portuguese (no translation service) her bank statements to print and sent her to the ban k(who has translators). I stewed for fucking weeks because I didn’t want to be seen as the “too…

Totally! All you need to know is that every song in Spanish includes the word corazon.

Take care of yourself and your little girl. Mimi will read a bedtime story.

I’m wrapping up my second week of grad school, and I also recently applied for a new job that would pay me a lot more money, but I think will actually be less stressful than my current job. I’m exposed to a lot of compassion fatigue and vicarious trauma from the families I serve in my current job, and the new job…

It’s a terrible place where people ask you about Trump all the time.

haha

My psychiatrist for whatever reason decided she thought it was time to wean me off my medication and stop seeing me. I was unsure about it, but thought it might be a good idea? That kind of went to hell and for a few solid weeks I wasn’t able to really leave the house or pull myself together. A lot of off and on…

I lead the life of a mideaval peasant--hardly ever go more than ten miles from home. Tell me what the wide world and its monsters are like!

I'm not sure I have any good advice right now, but I want to let you know that I read what you've been dealing with and I'm so sorry that you feel so terribly. You don't deserve to feel this way.

I want to pose a question to everyone: how do you pick yourself up after feeling like you’re a fundamentally unloveable piece of shit?

I’m a bit embarrassed to say that I never owned a vibrator until my friends bought me one about a year ago. (Yes, I have awesome friends!) It definitely came with me on vacation, lol.

It felt so good. I was so relieved to see him understand that this isn’t just me being overly emotional.  This is something I have to deal with all the time and it’s frustrating as hell.

Aww, Snake Person you’re so sweet! Thank you. I love you and I’ve missed you, too!

Honestly? As soon as I found out the ex had been whoring around for months, I took myself down the lady-positive vibe emporium and treated myself to something nice to keep on nightstand.

Yeah, people who are saying she should have been more gracious during the game just go away. She’s the GOAT because she can get angry. So this time it caused problems, and what of it? She has walls of trophies that being willful and sometimes downright angry got her. We good sports can keep feeling just as happy we…

BUNNY!

I got REALLY mad at work a couple weeks ago because while trying to resolve a very frustrating problem I kind of copped a bit of an attitude in an email with a man who was being incredibly unhelpful. I wasn’t rude at all. I just broke it down so any regular dumbass could understand. He didn’t appreciate that and made…

Nice! Having some wine now.