Tell me more about this swollen lymph node please. I think something similar is happening to me but I'm not sure. What did you feel exactly?

I sweat during the winter and during the summer. No smell, just uncomfortable. I hate it so much.

I'm really jealous of people who can get away with not wearing anti-perspirants. If I even tried to forget for one day, there would be hell to pay.

Wow. You're far more understanding than I could ever be. Yikes! Hope your hand is mended soon.

Aha. Suspected as much. Thanks!

Car question: Is it better to get oil changes based on the number of miles driven or number of months elapsed? I have a newish car (6 months) and I estimate that it will take me about 9 months to get to the mileage the dealership requires for my first oil change and I'm wondering if it's too long to go without one.…

The top picture at the link is so awkward. She's a far better woman than I for going on that trip.

Awww. I love this. All the best to her and her family.

I've heard a few times that she isn't easy to get along with and isn't a particularly nice person. But seeing as I've never met her, I dunno.

Fresh, delicious sushi. And noodles.

Damn near every black person I knew growing up in the Caribbean could swim. And swim well in the ocean, not just some calm pool. So I always wonder about that idea about black people not knowing how to swim. Unless they just mean black people in the US which I still think isn't entirely true.

I was just about to say that he wouldn't have taken that shit from me. But let a white woman say some foolishness like that.

Because the only thing to do in Anguilla is swim. Forget experiencing the culture or anything.

No. We can attack many issues affecting the black community at the same time. Saying that black face is offensive and fucked up and should stop doesn't take away from our ability to also address other issues, which aren't even relevant to this story anyway so I'm not sure why you bring them up.

Gotcha! Thanks. I guess I should have checked the website more closely.

That's what I'm afraid of. But then nothing beats a try, I suppose. It's only $20 down the drain.

Whaaat? I didn't know that they stopped at 14. I wanted to get a size 14 friend onto it too. I have uncommon body dimensions so I'm hoping they can work with me. I think I'll do it ;)

Same here. It does seem like a great idea though.

Has anyone tried Stitch Fix? I'm thinking of taking the plunge and I'd like to know if anyone has had a good experience getting clothes from them.

I've been there too with the weepy, sentimental ex. And the one time I went back, the shitty behavior continued because he knew I was a pushover. I hope you run and stay far away. Don't be fooled.