I've talked pretty openly about my inability to get pregnant and my decision not to pursue the medications and intervention route. If I'm going to be 100% honest, some of that is because I'm terrified I'd hate being a parent. I'm a parent to two step-children right now and I know I'm Ok at it. Adequate to the task.…

The though of having children petrifies me, for a number of reasons, but this one is pretty high on the list. What if I don't enjoy it or regret it? I like my quiet time, solitude and have a very independent nature.

My grandmother had 12 children in the days before birth control, and regretted each one. She'd never wanted to get married and have kids. She always wanted to be a seamstress/clothing designer. She was physically and mentally abusive to her chindren. My mother remembers that the only thing she did that could be…

During my degree we read enough historic documents (accounts from Victorian therapists etc) that I've become sure: marriage and children are 100% artificially-imposed life goals. They can be great, but we made a huge mistake asserting they should be the goal of all people. Indifferent mothers and happy singles are a…

My biggest fear of having kids is that no one would ever talk to me about anything else. I'm not that jazzed about the idea anyways, but it seems like hell to be stuck in some nightmare world where I take care of a screaming child, and then every conversation would then be about that child. I'd no longer be an…

Wow, wonderful piece. Personally, I love being a mother, it's by far the most fulfilling part of my life. But I've always felt a knee jerk reaction to the sanctimonious idea that this was something all "normal" women would love and find fulfilling.

No, there's not. It's a rare thing, which is why when there's one case, it's plastered all over all the news everywhere. I'd bet the rent and my kids that there are more women who have terrible cancer that could have been avoided by regular exams than there are male doctors who molest or film their patients. If you…

You're uncomfortable with men who choose to specialize in vaginas? It's your body, your choice. But this is a non progressive attitude, discrimination, really.

she's an extremely narcissistic control freak (who can forget her "documentary" where she talked about having every image and sound of hers stored in some climate controlled room - even pics taken by fans - she has to control everything, always be perfect).

A Buffalo wedding without at least 3 deaths is considered a dull affair.

Edit: That gif was a bit more graphic than I realized, toning it down, whoopsie

Buffalo: Toronto's Juarez.

I've had patients legitimately hit on me — one immediately after her abortion, and another right after a pelvic exam.

Women can break their hymens in several ways other than having a dick inside of you.

Shit, I've never even seen the damn movie and I hate it.

i mean yes, some of the shit she did was ridic but i honestly have no idea what i would do if i was stopped by a cop like this. and i 1000000% believe the call was racially motivated. i mean, why else would a white dude be with a black girl AMIRITE?

The person who called the cops in the first place was probably motivated by race but I think the cop handled the situation well. When this story first broke i was expecting a whole different kind of conversation but the cop seemed professional to me. He was called to investigate a potential crime, either…

Not gonna lie, I'm turned on by a lot of hardcore stuff in porn. I'm turned on by stuff in porn that I would never even do in real life. And that I probably wouldn't admit to if I was asked for a study. And once you plugged my vagina into the thingamajig and actually measured my level of arousal, chances are my…

Outside of in the morning do you really know a lot of guys who aren't, you know, 12 who get random boners?

She's also a fan of old-school discipline, like spanking