Feminism really has nothing to do with this discussion, and the fact that you think it does, says a lot about you.

No, it isn't a gray area. She said no. He continued to have sex with her. How is that gray? The only people who believe that is gray, are the people who want to (or have) had sex with a woman who does not give her consent. And, I doubt the court system will find anything out. Rapists are very rarely brought to…

Anyone who puts "feminist" in quotes is simply a misogynist.

No, actually there isn't. He admitted to having sex with someone WHO SAID NO. Any way you look at it, he f-ed up.

He admitted he had sex with someone who said no. F that noise.