I agree. Your wedding is personal and meaningful to you, so you do what you want and other people can do what they want. Kitsch and themes don't necessarily make it better or worse.

I've actually met a number of really nice people online, for friendship and more. I won't pretend like every interaction is fabulous and I love it, but I've had way better luck online than offline. Part of it is that I can get the "relationshippy" questions out of the way immediately. For example, does this person…

My mom always told me that you can tell what kind of person someone is by how they treat someone they perceive as "beneath" them, whether it's small children, animals, servers, or anyone else. If they have a habit of dehumanizing or being cruel to any of these people, rest assured that one day, you will be "beneath"…

But I thought it was the sexy ladies who washed the cars in their bikinis! Do men even know how to wash a car? Or can the sexy bikini girls not wash the trucks because the trucks are so manly and then they will also be manly?

"Please, I have a wife and family,"? Well, maybe you should have thought of that before being a horrible excuse for a human being. Your wife and children should know that you thought it was okay to rub up on someone else and be a terrible, shitty creep. Maybe the people you rub up on are someone's wife or family,…

I fully admit my complete envy at having apparently over $200 to waste on a kid's meal that she doesn't even like (and honestly, wasn't likely to). I'm so sour-grapey, I might be one.

For me, I grew up very rural, so there were few people. If I went walking down the road, it was likely that I'd literally see no other humans. Once I grew up and moved to actual cities (at about 19), I have no idea. No one's ever really bothered me. I get asked for directions from lost tourists or sometimes have…

I am probably a really terrible person, but I am not interested in having "everyone's children". I mean, it's one thing to see a child in distress (like a lost kid or something) and help them, or keeping an eye on a kid near a busy street as you're both standing and waiting to cross, but no thank you, I do not want…

I agree. I personally really don't like how I look in "skinny jeans", and they're never comfortable, no matter what size they are. If they're loose enough to not pinch certain parts, then they're sagging off other parts. I can't keep anything in their pockets, because you can see the outline (thus letting the…

I'm nearly 30 and I don't think I've ever been catcalled. I know it's a very common experience for most women, but it's very possible.

I'm not trying to be contrary, but what about the women who don't have PMS? Do they just never get to be free of bullshit-tolerance?

I actually took it as a bit of a jab at the show, and how few women were on it, but then again, I'm not always great at reading tone.

This attitude always baffles me. Even if a kid is trying to act sexy, s/he's a kid! You ignore that shit and act like the adult you are. That's not to say you were acting sexy, of course not!

I'm curious: do tights actually make any difference? I don't wear dresses, but tights are so thin and flimsy that they seem to me like they wouldn't really keep you warm or protect you from weather, but I could be wrong!

This reaction (not just you, but the people in general who are saying it's gross and they don't like it) kinda surprises me. First off, this site tends to get pretty picky about criticizing people's bodies and calling them gross, especially about bodies that don't conform to beauty standards.

I always sleep in underwear, at minimum, usually more. I only wear sports bras, so I find them comfortable to wear. I've never liked being naked, so it's always been pretty natural for me to wear something to sleep in.

Oh, good luck! I was basically On A Mission from the time I turned 18 to find someone who would sterilize me. I grew up in a very conservative state in the US, and I did find someone! I feel for you, and keep at it. I tried to rush myself into having sex (I was 24, and I know a lot of people would laugh at that,…

Like a lot of people have said, it's not that women are shocked by seeing it, it's more that it's rude and possibly indicative of a personality type that could mean trouble. There are times and places for certain activities, and as mature adults, people can understand that just because something is appropriate in one…

I've always had ~*issues*~, and I considered hormonal birth control for period control, mostly. My periods weren't that bad, but they triggered the hell out of my gender issues and I used to just get crazy during that time. I also worried that pregnancy would push me over the edge into Absolute Crazytown and…

Have selfies as a movement ever solved or contributed to solving any actual problem? I'm genuinely curious. I can't imagine how they would, but hey, I'm unimaginative.