Yup, any man. (although respect for him being a vet, my dude was a tank commander in peace time for a bit and that was terrifying enough!!) I'm so glad to have moved to Sweden where a dude with a BabyBjörn is A1 normality, no questions asked. Kudos to you both - babs will benefit from the care from his/her papa AND…

Yes! Indeed. Humour and respect the whole way! I am happy for you lea NJAWB, that you had great parents - we are very priveliged growing up in the West, I think we often don't realise how different things are in a lot of the world. Thank you for bringing your perspective.

I know, one should not nourish ze trolls.... but I just finished my book and a nice bit of carpentry on the back yard...and I enjoy a cheeky bit of internet sparring. He is indeed a attentionwhore (ooopsie! only ladies can be whores....amirite??) Seriously though, why on earth wander over to Jez if you have that kind…

Men are men, and women are women? That's like saying "well, fire should be hot and steel should have various torsive properties." What about those who aren't straight?

Good on you ma'am. The other side of misgynist crap is that is takes away from men who want to be, and are, great caregivers. Congrats on your newborn!

For summer solstice, we have a TON of fun. There's a nativity peak 9 mo after. But then, we are but a poor, insignficant, feminist nation. Where..oh, men have a ton of sexy sex becuase women love men who respect them. Yay!

Oh I don't know. I'm having rather a jolly time parrying with one. I think I'm winning.

Well then do pardon us as you spread your ineffable wisdom to our poor, tiny lady-brains.

Where do you live now? US or EU ?

Well, last time I checked, Putin wasn't planning to send the tanks into the archipelago. We welocome immigrants (in reasonable numbers) in fact Sweden takes a huge number pro rata for population, and we integrate them into society well.

Where are you from?

and out of interest, what brought you to Jezebel? It's generally thought to be a feminist blog. Why read it if you're so antipathetic to its message?

Actualy, plenty of British ladies did fight and die for equality. Emily Pankhurst?

Ahhhh...yeah, I hate to say it (don't hate me, my friend) but they possibly will. I remember my wild carefree, 5 times a night uni days....

You say things like this and I just think...hmm.. yeah, they're not real. But anyway, I will bite. Plenty of people would put themsleves on the line here for equality. We regularly vote against tax cuts so that the vulnerable in our community are cared for.

I was a tad infammatory, I admit. But if you see the attitude of the gent I was debating with, I think you may forgive me.

Good on you. I hope you find the internet a good resource. (the better bits of the internet..) My top tip is respect between partners. Treat your partner with respect and expect that to be reciprocated.

I have a terribly unscientific sample of one (two, if you count my willing partner.) Young guys can go 4-5 times a night, for sure. But we ladies can...well... just keep going. :) chaps shouldn't be taking on all of the cardio work! ;)

I'm sure there are plenty of men who disagree with me and don't care what I think. That's life. Swedish public opinion is very much against them. You live in Sweden, you accept that we have equality. We have no place for stone age gender crap here.

Hahha..OK, you got me. You're a troll. None of this is serious... I was sucked right in there. Well played sir!