So I wrote a huge money saving post last year for someone, but there’s a few tips I recommend to everyone:

That’s because you’re a white guy who lives in PA. So it’s very easy for you to clutch your pearls and say you’re only thinking of the victims as you won’t be a backlash victim yourself.

I’m glad I never got on the Van Jones train. So many people were cheering him on before the election, and I was like, “I-I don’t trust him.” Why people out here confirming my suspicions all the time? He’s out here with the whole “we have to reach out to these racist white people...” They already told us what they…

EXTREMELY RELEVANT.

Been married to a white woman for 15 years. With her for 20.

The in laws are in town and I need a drink. They “got a good deal” on plane tickets and decided they were coming to stay with Mr. Mox and me for the whole week. Never asked if it was ok or convenient with our schedules. And while they’re lovely people, a little goes a long way with these two. Mr. Mox just shrugged it…

When did this whole ‘telling women to smile’ bullshit start? “Hey, smile!!!” WTF, strange and creepy man, fuck off and mind your own fucking business.

Hang in there friend.

You make a very good point. Sometimes we have to wait until our parents pass so that we can face the facts about dysfunctional family ties. Our parents don’t like to see us fall out with our siblings but once a parent passes, it’s easier to cut those ties.

women who want children can be surgeons, but they need to do what men who become surgeons do and marry someone who is going to be the person in the relationship who prioritizes childcare.

Why does it suck? I assume the woman in that scenario freely makes the choice that she wants kids and she wants this guy who she knows works all the time to be her partner. Relationships are teamwork and it seems like they’re deciding how they want to work as a team.

I think OP gets that, but is also pointing out the reality that to a certain degree, we ALL make choices and sacrifices in life.

I don’t feel that way. I’m an executive at a well known company in the technology industry with 2 kids. As self important as we can be in my industry, little to nothing of what we do is life or death. Almost anything can be pushed off to “later” or “tomorrow” to accommodate a doctor’s appointment, school function,…

Right? I really agree with you and burnsitito11, we CAN’T have it all, no one can. People who say they can be a CEO and work 80 weeks and be a great mom and volunteer and and and, remind me of little kids who want to be astronaut pirate vets. There are only 24 hours a day, you can do fewer things well, or more things…

I don’t think this person is making a case for less surgeons and medical professionals. I think they are saying that choosing a career that requires intense commitment and focus may mean forgoing the ability to have kids. This applies to both genders, not just women, although men are certainly and unfortunately…

When I started on this career path, I was 17 years old in university and had never even had a boyfriend. This career is all I’ve ever wanted.

This all day. Having a family and a responsible job are all possible, but maybe not in the exact manner you want them. Want a big family? Maybe scale back the career. Want a big career? Maybe scale back the family. My old boss is a senior partner at a top global law firm. Her husband has a travelling career. They have…

What this really is about fathers who aren’t doing their part of raising the kids. They want to be there for Kodak moments, and let their domestic/reproductive slave(many people like to call this a wife) to do all the cunt work. This is something nobody is talking about, whole societies are expected to support women…

Actually, you need to pack in all the sex you can before the baby turns into a mobile unit bc then it’s a lot harder to get a few minutes alone. Toddlers don’t sleep like infants and they have this psychic sense for when you want privacy. When Diva was 3ish we parked her at the computer with her favorite Pooh game and…

Awe, man. I was really hoping this was going to be tips on how to be a new mom and still do all the weird sex shit you wanted before. My partner and I had just gotten into costumes (for me) and taping ourselves going at it when I found out I was pregnant. Going totally sober and hormones tanked my sex drive and I miss…