WTF did I just read that correctly?! They married you off? Even in the 90's that’s some fucked up shit. I’m 1975 too :) You have every reason to feel pride and a sense of accomplishment given the sabotage you were subjected to. And one reason to be smug: after family events, do you have to support your friends who…
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Is anyone ever ready? 18? 25? Sometimes it’s best to rip off the bandage. Good for you - you didn’t wait a day longer than you needed to :) Props.
You’re totally right. From a young age (3) I was the main caretaker for my brother. I had 15 looonnng years to grow up. I had a strong sense of independence and felt I was an alien in my home. This helped me be alone. Thank you for your support! I’m old now but my teenage self feels your hug :)
I learnt to forge signatures. I had a high school councillor that went to bat for me when teachers would fight me for a “parents” signature. Trust me when I tell you that although it was obvious I was on my own, some adults titillated themselves but putting obstacles in my way.
Good for you! I know the struggle. “Where are you going for Christmas/Thanksgiving” etc etc is really hard to answer when you are emancipated early. All good now.
Yeah, I’m amazed at the decisions made by young people with that quiet confidence that comes with a safety net. I am permanently risk-adverse and anxious from needing to be on my fucking toes at all times!
Am I the only one who did leave the house at 15 and was ready? I came from a violent, poor and abusive home. I left and never looked back. Welfare cut me a cheque and I did my best. There is nothing more sobering than having zero safety net.
It must have changed. In the 90's, I was also given a bunch of birth control pills (cut out of a 28 day pack) from a clinic when I requested “the morning after pill”.
Pyramids are still cool though. Empty chambers may have housed the internal crane structures that hoisted building materials.
#metoo 28 years ago. It really sucked back then. It sucked a few years ago. It’s sucking less and less now. Nothing will ever be the same since Weinstein. Too little, too late for some of us. I am so happy that woman and children can live in a somewhat safer world now.
Vancouver resident here - we have comparable real estate issues. Expensive real estate doesn’t excuse being desensitized to children living on the streets. AirBnB is damaging to many cities and I don’t book with them and also encourage others to skip that service.
Heart-warming would be a story about providing housing and stability for children living in poverty. The sheer numbers of children (let alone adults) living homeless in the US is a hard thing to celebrate. This is not necessary in a ‘first’ world country.
Srsly. And ignorant, privileged members of that society are going to tell you that this is a heart-warming story because it (temporarily) made the girls happy. That speaks volumes. Enough children of homeless mothers to make a girl scout troop. I just can’t.
Well that just takes the cake, or the cookie. Poverty and homelessness is such a common aspect of US society that there are enough children of homeless mothers to make a girl scout troop. And when they sell cookies, it is a heart-warming news story? Wow.
As a fellow rape survivor, I roll my eyes a bit too at the complaints of groping and inappropriate comments. However, you must support and celebrate people who are making it difficult to get away with every day sexual assault. #Metoo is making it a safer place for children in the future. Rape Culture ensured our…
Cactus Club.
Even if you are cousins, historically speaking, that’s kind of what humans do. My Iranian bf’s mother and father were first cousins. He had one Grandma as a result. That’s the norm, and has been the norm for many cultures. Not promoting it, just saying it’s NBD.
When my roommate and I got married, both husbands had to move in with us. Us girls had no problem with it, the boys on the other hand...
Is this one of those tricks were you’re supposed to spot the differences? Where did her black bra and paint smock go when they panned down to the paints? Just me? OK.