Alcohol and drugs make things more complicated for sure. If you don't feel safe around her, take the necessary steps to avoid her and disconnect.

Go for it! Either she doesn't message you back, or she does, in which case you know she's still interested, and you can make it up to her.

How long ago did this occur? I would be more willing to get her side of the story if this happened a long time ago and she learned from this. If this is something she's still proud of and bragging about, you may need to take steps to protect yourself to make yourself feel safe.

Look, latent sexism is such a big part of most things. But here, Dan completely disregarded the caller's exact words to come up with his own theory. The problem is I don't think he tried to do this, he just didn't listen, and filled in the blanks on his own.

HUSBAND's letter is an example of the worst kind of opening up - when the other person suggests it out of the blue in order to fulfill a specific desire they have, and they're daring the partner to say no.

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"They'll want to shut down the opponent's best player"

This has to be a lie. Semin never played defense, much less against Crosby.

"If they can keep them from scoring, they'll have an advantage."

Thank you very much!

I remember an urban legend (or maybe it's true, who knows) of the "cracker challenge", where a group of frat guys ejaculate onto a cracker and the last to come has to eat the cracker.

Pierre is only acceptable if you really need to know where a guy played junior for some reason.

You're right, of course. I was trying to boil it down and was a bit too flippant.

I understand where you're coming from. Fundamentally, though, I found I could not justify my comfort being single (I can do whatever I want!) with my fear of being in a relationship.

Depends on the reason why you're single. If you're comfortable being single and finding fulfillment in your life, then you're fine. If you're being single because you're afraid or unable to let another person get to know you, then you may want to examine those reasons.

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