I read that as Mark Knoppfler at first, still smiled.

And that's the huge problem with Dan's "open it up and everything will be solved" solution. Men have been claiming that they have open marriages, or other mitigating circumstances, since the dawn of time. Why should anyone believe anyone now? Especially in a don't-ask-don't-tell arrangement?

Hello! As a fellow new guy, welcome aboard! And welcome out!

A swing would work great for him. Basically, he needs to start thinking outside the missionary box.

He specifically asked for an add-on, and Dan didn't give it. It may be technically possible, though I think if he could get a harness to secure his dick, he could get his hand to do the same thing. Ultimately, though, this guy has to work around his dick, not the other way around.

When I was on campus, in the age of the dinosaurs, it was generally understood that a speaker didn't represent the opinions of the university. I understand the desire to not invite anyone who will exclude members of the community, but sometimes worthwhile speakers will have said something that will have offended…

He deals with a caller this week in a similar mealy-mouthed way. I think he doesn't have the heart anymore to tell the third people that they are unequivocally right or wrong.

Isn't bathing great…? It soothes your heart. How is it, bubby? Feels good, huh?

A relative is a teacher, and he looks young for his age. To avoid problems, he basically doesn't date people who are the age who could have possibly been his student.

I do think that left-leaning college students can be too quick to constrain free speech on campus. I don't think it's as big of a problem or as widespread as right-wing people want you to believe.

Hello again, and welcome to your Savage Lovecast review for the week of September 20. I hope you have your moral relativism on, because this week’s episode is surprisingly fraught.

My boss did not ask. I told him when I slipped my headphones on that I was zoning out. I still didn't want him to see me writing "cuckold" on my phone.

It's so hard for parents to recognize emotional abuse between siblings because it can look to them like typical sibling rivalry and jealousy. It's yet another aspect that we can learn about more and improve ourselves (as parents).

Dan said that victims of physical abuse and victims of abuse from people outside the family are often supported by their families because it is easier for the families to draw lines between victim and perpetrator. I don't think that victims of abuse get the unanimous support from their families that he seems to…

It seemed to me that they defined objectification loosely as "finding someone attractive without knowing who they are as a person." Which, as they see it, defines how we first look at people in all kinds of situations, how we're first attracted to people. The problem, as they see it, is when people can't get beyond…

And not even when she was necessarily trying to arouse anyone. Guh. What a scuzz.

I've discovered that it is easier to respond to people who are making rational arguments than nonsensical arguments. I bet Dan has discovered the same thing.

Son…

I completely agree that breaking up with someone who is going through something soul-crushing is not something to take lightly. I think Dan's point (and I'm not Dan's apologist) is that, if a person has made all of these efforts, and is convinced that their efforts won't help, that the person can escape without…

Inflammable means flammable? What a country!