No, I told her it takes more than just her showing me her tits to make me come running to the bedroom. As a man am I not allowed to want more out of a seduction?

I'm about to share too much lol. From the male perspective my marriage kind of ended up being a situation like this, except instead of me just proudly displaying my erect manhood as a seducing technique it was actually my wife who would basically attempt to "summon" me to our bedroom, by simply flashing me her…

I suspect it's those "get it done in under 20" times that makes her a reluctant lover. Not saying I'm Joe Stamina or anything, but there's this little thing called foreplay dude, maybe you should look into it.

Wow, this is a new level of douchebaggery isn't it? I hope the wife made a beeline to a divorce lawyer soon after receiving this. I get the feeling "You're too drunk" was the reason given more than Mr. Database here is admitting.

I'll be in my bunk.

The Inhumans with a strong Medusa as co-leader would be choice!

It's Luc Besson, it will be terrible in all kinds of awesome ways. I'm there.

I was just saying on I09 how I thought this would kind of piss me off if I was a woman. I'm interested in seeing everyone's thoughts on this.

Undercover feminism? What the does that even mean?

In shorter terms: Thank you for your response. No harm, no foul.

I was in no way discounting the fact that this guy had hatred toward women issues as well as whatever co-occurring disorders he might have. I'm sorry you took it that way. I think it is just as irresponsible to assume that this was a result of the rape culture, something I also don't discount. As far as the armchair…

Are you seriously implying that I'm standing up for misogynists and/or men who do violence to women? Because that's what your responses feel like and I'd really like to know if that's how you perceive my posts.

Nice try, I wasn't trying to prove anything. I was offering an informed opinion as someone who has a counseling degree and extensive mental health diagnosis training. I still don't think the pathology of this crime begins and ends with a simple hatred of women.

It may be that even if they were trying to get him help, that he simply couldn't be helped by conventional therapy. My Ab-Psyche professor told us that someone with narcissistic personality disorder is a nightmare for a therapist. They will go in with an agenda to manipulate you and you're not likely to get anything…

Exactly. I think the signs were there.

Ok, you win, it was all the patriarchy's fault, but according to this video he seems to hate men who do well with women just as much as he was going to punish them too.

And I know I'm playing armchair psychiatrist here, but I've had a significant amount of mental health training and I really just have to try to make sense of shit like this in that context. I wish I could turn my diagnostic brain off at times.

You misunderstood, I wasn't saying he had "multiple personality disorder" as I know the proper term for that. I meant that he probably had several personality disorders. Sorry for the confusion everyone.

Misogyny might not even play into this except for the fact it was the "motive" for his murder. Everything this guy needed to go bad was in his personality disorders, I'm not even talking about the ASD diagnosis, though without proper interventions Autistic people can fall victim to several other conditions.

Just this video alone screams multiple personality disorders. I don't think anyone here is equating mental illness with a propensity for violence, but in this case, if it swims like a duck and quacks like a duck....