I’m sorry if I offend anyone with my opinion but I’m just upset by accusers’ choice of words. The #MeToo movement is extremely important for reasons we’re all very aware of and I hope that victims continue to come out with their stories. But I think in this particular situation the accuser’s choice of words were a…

Pam is Right. If you know that producer is a grimy, shady, pevert, rapist because in the Hollywood circles he was known to be an asshole type let’s go to a hotel room alone for discussion on a movie role and that actress knew his reputation for being a slime ball then why even go to the room. If I knew in advance I…

Most of the comments are really missing the point of what Pam was trying to get across. Pam’s message is that of “common sense”... not a message of victim-shaming. As a woman, I’m not utilizing common sense by trusting anybody that I don’t know, period. History and crime statistics all verify this. And unfortunately,…

Of course there is only one person to blame, the abuser. But the definition of insanity is repeating the same act and expecting different results. If every time someone meets Harvey Weinstein alone in his house or a hotel room and he assaults them, and other women have heard this, then it’s just common sense to…

Ms. Anderson like myself comes from a different perspective than most women. I was abused. I was raped. Whether Ms. Anderson dealt with her issues or not I did and will continue to do so because it is a lifelong process. We must as a society prepare women for the realities of the world not what we wish for them. I…

I believe that it is never not the time to talk about self protection. Victims sharing their stories and abusers being held accountable are good things. It is long overdue. But, it can’t be the only thing we’re talking about/doing.

I think one point very much being missed here is this: no matter the circumstances surrounding sexual assault/rape, women (and males, too, who have been in the same situation) should not have to be afraid to speak out, to report this to the police, or to even say ‘no, this isn’t appropriate for the workplace’ without…

I agree and in her way I think Pam was not victim blaming she was saying recognition of predators and following ones instincts:if it don’t feel right it’s probably not career or not is actually good advice

Who in this world can walk around not being aware of there surroundings? Policing one’s self is not lonely it’s smart you can still have friends and a circle of love ones to enjoy life with! But you gotta pay attention you gotta listen to your instincts...yes it would be great to walk the streets willie nellie without…

Sounds like common sense to me take a agent a friend somebody, better safe than sorry. What’s wrong with protecting your self..it’s called self preservation. The producer, boss what have you is not a friend, you don’t know him why trust him? I don’t care about what she stands for or what’s she done...what she is…

First, I’m a man who has worked in the film and television industry for 9 years. Not once has a male colleague asked me “go up to his hotel room” or addressed me in a fucking robe.

Second, you have to admire all the neo-feminists trying to rationalize how another woman could go against their sacred dogma by trying to…

I totally agree. What makes this situation a little different in my eyes is Weinstein’s reputation and the fact that Anderson actually provided a reasonable solution by suggesting that they take someone along.

I absolutely get what you’re saying. Pam is advocating a pro-active approach in giving women the tools (self defense, being cautious, etc) as opposed to just “fixing” the other side. There’s nothing wrong with giving her opinion but because it doesn’t hew completely with the groupthink that’s developed these past two…

Correct, I am just talking about the name calling. I work in entertainment and do avoid hotels with men alone especially because I know some dudes can be creeps. I don’t want to lead them on in any way.

All of these responses to her comments are utterly stupid. She is not wrong. For example: Chicago inner city gun violence is at record highs; don’t travel to Chicago inner city unless you want to accept the risk you might get shot. Is this excusing the shooters? No. It is simply common sense and a reality. Until the…

It’s her opinion and she is being honest, her truth. I’ve grown tiresome of the personal insulting attacks and mean ass name calling on anyone having any opposite opionion on this unfortunate or any debate for that matter. I’ve been a rape victim as well as many of us, it sucks and it taught me to not trust dudes in…

actually i thought she was well-spoken and didnt say anything offensive. its so easy to tear someone apart these days but at least shes doing something beneficial to society by giving lectures about pornography. some of porn is straight up rape. young men and women need to know the difference.

I’m not gonna be really critical here. I think she’s coming from a “are you fucking dumb/brand new?” place when she speaks on it. She’s like “don’t go into a fucking hotel room alone. Take the agent with you.” She’s speaking on rape culture from someone who has been made famous and also exposed and humiliated by the…

Selena Gomez is not a victim. She is also not an infant. She is an adult. Adults, both men and women, should not enable sexual predators. Certainly, some people will have to make deals with the devil in order to survive. Selena Gomez can survive and thrive without enabling sexual predators. If we expect men to step…