As someone else in the kink community: lolno. I don’t force my fetishes on randos or coworkers because CONSENT IS IMPORTANT IN BDSM

Really? You can’t fathom any possible reason why behavior that is acceptable within the context of the kink-community might not be automatically appropriate in the context of a professional relationship?

The thing is that even if the two of them were totally fine with his proposal, this is behavior that shouldn’t exist in any workplace. Even on a porn movie set, if that’s not what you’re paid for, keep your innapropriate offers to yourself.

Takei was the first “liberal” that I realized may just be a token guy. He’s tweeted insuling things about the mentally ill before. He’s insinuated that women are “gross”, along with other sexist statements. He’s body shamed and fat shamed, in particular.

My great aunt told me she grew out of her “headaches” at 60. I don’t know if they were actually migraines or not, but either way it was welcome news since I also get bad headaches that last several days in a row. I don’t know that they are migraines since I don’t have all the symptoms and I have never been diagnosed…

I live in rural NY outside Buffalo. It’s pretty amazing how racist you can become with little contact outside media coverage and the like.

I did this once with many of the same reservations and was astonished at how physically and emotionally intense it was. I have a pretty good imagination, but this was nothing like a day dream — everything felt much more tangible and vivid than even regular dreams, starting with the intense physical feeling of my…