Floorgasm, please consider leaving your marriage right now. Abuse only gets worse - no couples therapy can fix this. You and your child deserve a peaceful life without fear and anxiety.

There is a pattern where people who have been abused identify with the aggressor in an attempt to not feel powerless.

If women don’t understand that their vulva is normal, average, how is their consent for a procedure they don’t need even ethical ? Is their consent even informed by reality ?

Look, I have never suggested that women’s CHOICE be limited.

The issue is that most women - straight women - never see another woman’s vulva except in porn. Many women cannot even NAME the parts of their genitalia correctly. If vulvas were like noses- and we could see everyone’s every day - then make up our own minds about the state of beauty of our own then this issue would be…

I saw the same documentary. The same as there are women who benefit from breast reductions there are some women whose inner labia are exceptionally long, chafe and make them physically uncomfortable.

Someone I went to school with had this done in the mid 90's. It made me so sad. She was sleeping with some asshole who made fun of her inner labia and said it looked like a rooster’s comb. So she had it cut down.

This collection looks like semi-homeless youth that hang out at a Greyhound station in Manitoba c. 1989. But on skinnier people.

The puppets in the original Thunderbirds tv show were much more lifelike and convincing human beings. She’s like a Thunderbird marionette that was in a fire or something.

This is classic abuser behaviour. The endless legal bullshit, the desire to control and punish, the attempt to exhaust her resources...

Try reading the article, and you do the math then smartypants.

Development and destruction of habitat kill more birds than cats ever will.

In the bad old days of NYC (70's)an apartment in a bad part of town could be had for like $ 150.00. It may have been cheaper than proper rehearsal space.

He has different residences where he keeps his harems of 2nd, 3rd and 4th tier “girlfriends”, and houses his various drug dealers in style, but keeps them apart from each other. Plus he probably has housing for his “assistants”, but those are usually treated pretty poorly, so that is probably a 400 sq foot bachelor…

Years ago there were a bunch of Saturday afternoon break ins at my old building. Someone knocked at my door, and when I answered it there was a smirking creep who asked if Henry lived there. The fake name at the door thing is a criminal trying to cover their ass. They knocked to make sure that the apartment was empty…

It’s important to recognize that shouty freakouts can be abusive, too. This should be differentiated from a person having a shouty freakout about a building on fire, runaway car headed straight for you, etc.

“Anger management issues” is some fucked up doublespeak for abusive behaviour and actions.

I read “the Orenda” by Boyden and felt like it was he-man violence porn. After all the blabbing on CBC about this author it was really disappointing.

There are enough incarcerated trans people, particularly MTF’s, that there needs be a separate trans only facility.

Well, if she had succeeded in killing herself first, then she would have never been convicted of murder. Funny how she was able to accomplish the kidnapping and murder but not the suicide. It’s not like she didn’t know where to get the tools.