This is solid advice. The other thing I mention in cases like that is that life is FULL of stress. You want someone who even when under stress isn’t a complete asshole because they will be stressed a lot over the course of time.

Probably more like:

- There are not enough woke men to go around

Maybe you don’t.  My vagina locks down around guys who are very obviously not.  I can’t stay turned on if I feel torn between constantly nagging someone or biting my tongue.

I feel for her, in a way, though David Cross is a serious POS and I cannot imagine what she is getting from that marriage. But it’s strange how many men have a seemingly willful blind spot in this area.My bestie is a dude, and when I was talking to him about Roe v. Wade last week he was like “I don’t think there’s…

I’m in a relationship with someone who is 4 years younger than me (he’s 29, I’m 33), and when we first started dating, we definitely had many a difficult conversation re: race (he’s white, I’m Latinx) and stuff related to #MeToo before #MeToo was a movement. Even those who profess wokeness tend not to fully understand…

His last name is Cook; Cuoco is Italian for “cook”, so it would technically be “Cook-Cook”.

She’ll gain ten pounds and it will be BRAVE!

Looking forward to Jennifer Lawrence getting cast to play her.

He should bring a bologna sandwich from home.

Honestly, there are days I think I’d be better off as a single mom. I have a two year old, and my husband is a nervous wreck of a father, he thinks there is a “perfect” way to parent and that we’re failing (note, my son is a perfectly happy and healthy, normal 2 year old who is ahead on most developmental charts.…

She wasn’t yelling.  And, confronting these assholes whenever and wherever you have the chance is good.

Yup.  Gotta have that “woman-with-a-toddler” shield.

I’m sure I’m gonna catch heat for this, but I honestly think part of the problem is that society still views women without children as incomplete failures. It needs to be more okay for women to just not have them.

Men get terrified at the prospect that they might be treated like women are or held to the same standards.

His comment was the straw that broke the camels back. I am the camel and after a decade of seriously dating in NYC I am DONE. Few brief relationships here and there, a LOT of casual sex partners, and a few major heartbreaks...I’m done with dating in the typical sense. I think it’s a good thing to admit when something…

Millennials are destroying the natural order of things by attempting to pay off 6 figure student debt and find a home they can afford before supporting children.

Whaaaaat. I can’t believe he admitted that! You should have asked him what salary he was offering for that job. Because that is a job, not a relationship. He wants a person with two main skills: secretarial and sex work. I say that should get some lucky gal close to 6 figures for full time.

If you want a kid more than you want a partner, don’t wait. Single momhood is totally doable but it gets harder as you get older, no mistake. You having a kid around might even sort out good partners for you down the road!

I never wanted children, but if I had...man,that would suck. I can’t think of anyone I ever dated who would have made a suitable parent. It just seemed like I would have been giving up so much and doing just about everything myself even with a partner, and I wouldn’t want to do that. Women today want full partners,and…

the millennial who is destroying the natural order of things by delaying marriage, having casual sex, and focusing on her career aspirations.