When you’re at that point, it’s worth taking a break from mirrors. It can really help with re-focusing on how you feel, as opposed to how you look, because you don’t have that constant information coming from outside. I recommend taking down or covering some or all of your mirrors at home. Only look when you’re…

Bet half the entries are from guys whose books don’t qualify but submit anyway!

Where is Dirtcast? Is it ever coming back?

Dr. Dre has consecutive children named Truice and Truly.

It’s very disappointing—he was one of the few famous men I had privately affirmed I did not expect to see this from. However, especially if there’s more, that might explain why he’s been totally silent about Louis CK (they work with the management agency, 3 Arts) and at the Golden Globes.

You can even make a list of things you considered buying but didn’t, including prices, and tally ‘em up! It almost feels like another paycheck!

Book recommendation: Worth It by Amanda Steinberg. I recently read 3 books on financial mindsets, and this one was the most relevant. It includes lots of exercises and really did shift my habitual thinking about spending.

“A kind of semi-racist”???

I request Contempo Casuals and Esprit, then. (And this isn’t a bad idea at all.)

THIS!!!!11!!!! Why isn’t there more concern about how elite colleges are keeping their gender ratios balanced? It’s so obvious on the ground.

Never tried any Glossier, but in general for honest, unedited reviews try MakeupAlley.com. Average ratings there are always lower than on the vendors’ own websites, and that’s how you know the brands are filtering negative reviews. The bloggers and magazines are almost always on the take, so I don’t trust them either.

She also pressured him to propose via Twitter in 2015, after the gay marriage ruling!

Yep, this is the case of Timothy Piazza at Penn State. It’s horrifying.

I am so sorry. I can only imagine how hard that is.

When your entire identity and earnings potential is based on how you look, thirties is desperately aging.

Laura Kipnis and Masha Gessen have both done the same. I hate it because it’s not like we have a surplus of established feminist intellectuals who are published at their level. We only get a few token women, and they’re not speaking for us at all.

A cat hater? Oh HELL no.

There was the 2004 Super Bowl incident with Janet Jackson. People interpret it differently, but I think he’s probably an ass.

I agree on how hard it is. Can you say more about why it’s harder in later decades?

And I’d be the kind who was up shit creek—you know, when the man leaves and suddenly she can’t pay the bills. Since this easily could have happened to me, had I not been so committed to work, I have a special pass to mention it all the time, and I do. People may be thinking “well, MY husband isn’t going to bail like…