Alright. So here is something that maybe isn't so positive but is in line with parenting to be gender neutral. I remember hearing Geoffrey Canada say that one of the hardest parts about his Harlem kids program was getting parents to stop caring about their own success and to begin focusing on the children's success…

Just bought tix to see her! Can't freaking wait!

Right, exactly. I find it most shocking because it is a common victim blaming stance that I think isn't so often blatantly stated by the courts as the reason for letting off a rapist.

I just....I can't........

She is so awesome. I think after I first heard Sincerely Jane I listened to it 20 times in a row. Such ear candy. I saw her open for Bruno Mars and let me tell you that she stole the show. Mars was a let down because he just couldn't compare.