The concept of being okay with a man’s penis inside you but not okay with him seeing your nipples is pretty weird to me, I must say.

True. Any public hair or even implied cum (see: this film is not yet rated) is pretty much automatic NC17.

“Female”?

That makes so much sense. Thank you!

The cups undo and pull down for easy access to the nipple.

Unsnapped down? I might not know how bras work (hate them in general), and I definitely don’t know how lactation bras work. Seriously not being obtuse, but I have no idea what that means. I’m so sorry right now.

Asked him what was up with that afterwards and he was just like, ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Oh, that’s a thing. I shit you not, I’ve had two dudes in the past year ask me if I’ve ever lactated. I have never had kids, nor ever plan to. One of the guys, just casually, like, two weeks into hooking up, while we were having sex, asked me, “So, this is a weird question, but do you ever lactate?” I was just like,…

The MPAA was okay with the violence, but they really objected to that three-way sex scene where it looks like there might be rear-entry sex.

“When it’s with me, girl, you only need two minutes, because I’m so intense. You say something like, ‘Is that it?’ I know what you’re trying to say. You’re trying to say, ‘Aww yeah, that’s it!’ Then you tell me you want some more. Well, I’m not surprised. But I am quite sleepy”.

There’s a famous quote by Orson Welles to one of his female co-stars during a sex-scene filming:

“Please forgive me if I get excited...
(looks around at the 15 people on the crew staring at them in bed)
and, um, please forgive me if I don’t.”

Agree. My gf has a thing where she finds wearing a jacket during the deed to be especially arousing. Not, like, her hoodie or anything, but the leather half jacket. Is that what they’re called? Half jackets? You know, the ones that only go down to like the belly button. That can’t be right.

Years ago I worked on a couple of low budget movies.Two of them had sex scenes.They were both CLOSED set, which means unless you have be there, no crew is hanging around watching filming. It seems to be a decision to keep the actors feeling they are in a safe place since it is the actors who are in a vulnerable…

.......this is my “im not surprised that the MPAA finds female sexuality uncomfortable” face.

I’m a very sex positive person, but I wish movies had no sex scenes. They’re just awkward. Every time.

Lars von Trier had porn actors perform non-simulated sex for Nymphomaniac and then CGed the film actors’ faces in.

true...and the only thing preventing it from being a waste of one’s time is that it takes barely any time at all.

I was very nervous to have my first acting kiss in an acting class. It was so weird; he was young and a foot taller than my then-husband. Then I got into a musical that required me to play a lesbian and kiss two different women. As a straight woman, kissing the girls was a lot easier than kissing that young guy. Still…