The first thing my OB said when he accompanied me back to my recovery room was that the surgery went very well and I would be "an excellent candidate for VBAC." I probably gave him quite a glare because not only were we never planning on having more than one kid but that was not really the greatest moment to ask me to…

This. When a doctor does a c-section they can claim they "did everything they could" and any complications resultant from the surgery are known and accepted risks.

Did they make a nursing room and a nursery that was only able to be used by just one person? Because that's what she did.