I'm moving tomorrow and I am having the worst anxiety- over not being ready, over something going wrong with the movers, over the master tenant in my current place not giving me my deposit back... I still have some packing to do but I am so anxious that for the past 4 hours, all I've been able to do is tune everything…

For the rash, hydrocortisone is a good bet, if you haven't tried it yet.

Have you guys had the relationship talk yet and did she specifically state that she doesn't want to label it? If not, I'd recommend having a talk with her about where things are going.

Ditto.

That is fantastic to hear!

That sounds really shitty of her. I would just be honest with her. Stick to "I" statements ("I felt hurt that you didn't support me...") instead of "You hurt me..." so that she doesn't feel attacked but you still get your point across. Do it sooner rather than later because you don't want the resentment to build up…

Happy Birfday!

Happy Birfday!

Haha, I said the same thing about the last guy who broke up with me. He works long hours and his commute is something like an hour and a half each way so he just genuinely didn't have time to date at all but he was so so nice about it and told me he really liked me and it made it harder in some ways to accept and…

For relaxing music, I like the Lumineers and Lord Huron a lot lately.

Ughhh that is the worst because you don't really get that catharsis you get when someone dumps you in a shitty way. :/ Sorry to hear that happened to you. I think the important thing to keep in mind- even though it's hard- is that you won't feel like you feel about him forever.

Oooh good idea on the studs, thank you! And yeah, as much as I wish I could be all eco-friendly and do a vintage quilt, the idea of used bedding freaks me out. Plus style-wise, I am looking for something a little more updated, like this: http://www.anthropologie.com/anthro/product…

YES. And I also have to eat everything in sight but that's another story.

-a new quilt/bedspread for my bed

That is GORGEOUS. I love non-traditional wedding dresses.

I mean, if you have mutual friends it will show you who but you don't have mutual friends with every match. It's truly no different from Tinder, an app that I use and have met some cool guys on... but the thing with Tinder is that everyone kind of knows it's for hooking up. If you happen to meet someone on there and…

It doesn't even have that going for it... I went through several people and didn't have mutual friends with most of them.

So I downloaded Swoon to check it out and it's basically Tinder with an undo function and no section to write anything about yourself... how is this supposed to be for "serious dating interactions instead of meaningless flings"??? Like, I am really not understanding how this is any different from Tinder aside from…

Agreed. PLUS so many people went to the Make-A-Wish site that the site crashed (but thankfully not the donation page)! The event was totally worth it for making this little boy's dream come true, how much joy it brought SF and the internet and how much publicity and hopefully donations it brought in for Make-A-Wish.…

Sorry, as I explained in a follow-up post, I totally accidentally left out the word "feel". I meant to say that I think that a number of women *feel* selfish for taking too long to come or even *feel* selfish for wanting an orgasm at all and that is why some women accept orgasm-less sex and claim it's just as…