Holy shit. You sound like an incredible person. He sounds damaged and scared.

I understand why that’s working for you, but that arrangement still has you doing all of the cognitive labor! No one’s naturally good at scrubbing the floor, you just have to give an adequate amount of fucks.

Obviously, if one makes a typo in a comment section that completely invalidates their whole statement and by extension life. How could someone who hits the wrong two square millimeter symbol on their phone be a contributing member of society?

I’m 53, 5 years ago I took a half day gig running our local Post Office (to even out my income that I derive from woodworking). The USPS is always hiring. Glamorous? No, but it’s steady. Age shouldn’t be an issue, but there could be more to it. I feel for the writer, the system is broken.

Really! There is a huge difference between “That outfit is unprofessional” and “You look like a slut in that”.

Clearly not a lot of Savage Love (the podcast by Dan Savage) listeners here. I used to think, “Once a cheater, always a cheater”, and I would want to know and that it was relationship-ending. Maybe I would feel that way if I were just dating someone casually. But with the soon-to-be Mr. BabyGirlsMomma, I feel like I…

My husband used to say that cheating was the one thing he would never be able to forgive. That if I cheated on him, the relationship would definitely be over no matter what.

I feel like many people aren’t willing to put in work to try to make their relationships stronger and overcome things, ignoring that that’s part of a relationship - working through crap because the relationship matters more in the end. Of course everyone has their boundaries that they are allowed to define within…

Dishes here. I don’t believe that anything “needs to soak” and I have tried valiantly to impart this to my children. It’s really the only battle I’ve picked except for flushing. This isn’t the zoo. Seems like it sometimes, but no.

That’s when I bring in my super insulated monogrammed thermos filled with my own coffee.

“WTF did I just read” does not imply you are trying to understand but rather you think my situation is crazy weird. It is a judgement. If you are interested in learning, Google polyamoury, or read the Ethical Slut or More Than Two. Non monogamous relationships are actually much more common than you might think, it’s…

An adult discussion about cheating. Come back when you’re able to contribute something more substantial than a tired meme.