I dunno if Trey is really an ok guy either really. He gave Charlotte a cardboard baby! At least he got Bunny to back off when he gave her the apartment. I think Harry and Steve are the best guys from that show. Harry loves Charlotte so completely and Steve worked with Miranda even when she was being her most stubborn.…

I know pretty crazy right? Berger SUCKS. Remember when he just up and left her at that Hamptons party? And omg how could I forget when he gets all pissy cause his 2nd book was cancelled and he’s jealous of Carrie’s career success? And gets insecure about a gift she gave him? Or!! when he purposefully drove scary on…

Mr big appealed to me in college, especially since Carrie was like my idol and I was dating a low budget mr big. Now that I’m in my thirties I realize that Carrie is annoying as hell, meaning I probably was too, and aiden was the right choice. Basically my love life mirrored Carrie’s.

As I get older I get more and more pro-Aiden too (although I was always pro-Aiden anyway). I NEVER meet guys with any skills though so I’m just happy Aiden knows his way around a workbench.

I would prefer the bar-owner Aiden for sexual boning, and OG for fun, romantic walks in the city. OG would stop and buy me a donut.

This is tough because they’re both a little different. OG Aidan was more a doofus, a little more playful, less mature perhaps. And then bar-owner Aidan was kind of a dick, but also more confident and sexy and mature.

Yeah, I feel like, after kids, the guy you NEED is an Aidan- someone who can hold up his end of things, clam you down when you’re stressed, and not add to the drama. Plus, cheap furniture!

I feel like most women have an Aidan in their life: a great guy that is everything you think you want until you have him. And then you realize that you also need to have chemistry and just because he’s great doesn’t mean he’s great for you. Which is one of the hardest parts of adulting... learning that you aren’t who…

Everyone involved in that relationship deserved better: Aidan deserved not to be cheated on; Carrie deserved someone who gave her butterflies. And the second time around, Carrie deserved someone who dealt with his (totally legitimate) trust issues like an adult, and he deserved someone who knew for sure she wanted to…

I don’t really get the Aidan is boring thing either but he acted like such a big fucking baby when she was uncertain about the wedding. I guess they wrote that scene to be a huge turn-off on purpose and it sure worked!

Did he though?! I always felt like he was just ready for marriage and made Carrie fit somehow. And she was very unlovable towards him! Yikes, she was annoying as his gf 😂

I am shocked you consider “nice Berger” as still in the ok range. Remember when Carrie gave him feedback about his unrealistic characterization of his NYC woman character in his book and the scrunchy and he went all cry baby? If a man doesn’t want an equal he can piss off! This doesn’t even include the infamous post…

Aidan wouldn’t have been boring for the right person. Carrie was the wrong person.

the people who think Aiden was boring are the same people who always complain they cant find “the one”

100%. Someone once called my boyfriend an “Aiden” and I got so mad and defensive they immediately took it back. “Actually, he is like a nice Berger.” Which I happily agreed with. I have a knee-jerk dislike of Aiden that the blandness of the character doesn’t warrant. John Corbett is just annoying to me (also my bf…

Bless those bridesmaid dresses’ hearts.

I am not going to put the fig gif from SATC, but I thought about it.

It’s so sweet she found love in her twilight years. A nice man with a good job and she can retire to a cottage in Martha’s Vineyard. Watch the sunset every night in these last few remaining years. Oh what a lucky lady, I bet she has some stories from her years in the entertainment industry.

Those bridesmaids dresses are interesting...

Counterpoint: I dated two sous chefs**, and both were lovely individuals who fed me well. Aim a level lower and you, too, can reap the benefits without the assholism.