I watched it last year when I was in New Zealand and experienced a very similar metamorphosis. It was horrifying at first then just down right interesting. We started to plan to be back in the room on Mondays at 9pm so we could watch it because it was so fascinating.

There are men choosing women suitors as well. It shows every variety men picking women, women picking men, men picking men, women picking women, men/women picking men and women. The male contestants were actually quite complimentary of the ladies’ figures. 

They do have ladies picked in the same fashion and the men or women contestants were very complimentary.

I watched this show about a year ago when I was traveling through New Zealand and my friend and I were so intrigued. It definitely is  refreshing people were so open to different body types and non traditional standards of beauty. It was also interesting to see so many different forms of the lady bits than what is…

I agree. I definitely want to look in NA or similar programs for family members of addicts. It has only been a few days so that has been spent talking with my siblings, my dad, friends, etc to further put the pieces together. As you said, all these memories have this new lens to reframe them with. She is still on the…

Wow, that was a good read. On to the second.

I totally am. But it is also a relief because I had this intangible reason why my mother was so difficult to love and why she required me to care for her as a kid and now it all makes sense. Aside from the shock and absurdity of it all, I do feel a sense of relief “finally!” because now I know. I felt like I was…

This is my shocked face. :) Doesn’t surprise me at all. Sorry for your friend. She deserves better (as do all women). I wish he wasn’t a thing anymore. I refuse to see any movie he is in. 

Hey! You’re me! Want to talk about my bipolar mom?? We can swap stories and share all our dark “secrets”. I swear, two drinks in and I’ll tell you where my nuclear codes are because I have zero filter/overshare everything. And same, I can keep other people’s secrets just not my own.

Me too! Still going strong. :)

I’ve always disliked him then came the cheating, homophobia, and just being a downright terrible person. He has always rubbed me the wrong way and everything since just confirms my radar was correct that he is a terrible person.

This is late and no one will probably read this but I found out this week my mother has been abusing prescription pills for the better part of two decades. I always assumed she misused her pills but I never knew the extent and this all came as quite a shock. Just wanted to shout it into the void since I have no one to…

That was adorable. That gesture and smirk. I love Sandra so much.

And check the teeth for proof of actual beet juicing. 

I couldn’t do this for a living. But, sincerely, bless her. She gets what she gets out of it but she seems to be genuinely helping people and helping people who can’t afford to fix something that is probably embarrassing and decreasing their quality of life. We need more people like her.

They actually did an update several years ago and Jersey guy and his wife were happily married still! 

Whoa! This is the first Wills cheating story I have heard (aside from he being in Switzerland skiing that one time). What did I miss that happened before they got married?

And the nose. I always liked her real nose. Shame she had work on it. 

And handcuffing! He didn’t do a single thing wrong. You don’t get to cuff someone for trying to cash a damn check. Fuck!

I got hired by the state and it paid once a month two weeks after the month ended and so I had to wait SIX WEEKS for my first pay check. It was fucking miserable. My credit card got a freaking workout.