No irritation, can't even feel it. No issues with other products/lubes etc. Follow the directions, definitely wait for it to melt. Easy peasy.

Why are you not interested? It sounds like you are, but just maybe in a way you're not used to. What is it about this one that is different from others you have dated? Is there a "type" you're attracted to that he does not fit? If so, how has that type worked out for you in the past? Be honest about your feelings…

VCF is perfect for occasional encounters, and much easier to use (and carry with you) than many methods. You definitely want to still use condoms, though, until you're in a LTR and both have been tested. Whatever you use, it's ok to wait until you're really ready.

I just read an article about this:

You may be "in the BDSM scene" but it sounds like you are not able to discern whether or not this was "normal" and this guy certainly is not someone you could trust in that way. It's all about trust, and that trust needs to start with trusting yourself enough to know whether or not you are truly safe. So until you…

Maybe if the Supreme Court upholds Prop 8 we could use this tack on any/all nonprofits & churches that refuse to support marriage equality. One can dream.

One of the main problems with the whole GMO controversy is that nearly every modern crop has been genetically altered. Grafted fruit trees, hybrid vegetables etc. are considered GMO. It's too broad a designation for most of us to make sense of. So we need to really take apart and figure out our goal is for labeling.…

Just to clarify. Assault is not funny. Very bad.

I keep picturing that scene in Pulp Fiction in the pawn shop when Bruce Willis keeps pausing to pick a different weapon, only this time he ultimately settles on the New Orleans Saints Garden Gnome.

What an awful woman. Assault is wrong.

Also, are we yet tired of the casting of only uber-hetero male actors in leads portraying gay males? Can we be comfortable with gay male actors yet? How cool would it have been to see Kevin Spacey and Matthew Bomer, or Victor Garber and Neil Patrick Harris? Or is it only cool to watch guys making it onscreen when we…

I don't agree with involuntary service either, but that's not what we're talking about. If you want to talk about that, maybe you should write an article or something.

Yes. War is dehumanizing. So then you should agree that dehumanizing women, treating them as some sort of commodity or resource that should be available to you, is a deplorable, disgusting, unacceptable idea. Never ok. No excuses.

"Outlets for sexuality during war are necessary"

"but was definitely left it's mark"

Why are we even talking about rape/brothels as the only two options for soldiers? Why are we supporting the idea that because young men are in combat situations they are somehow entitled to warm bodies to fuck? The whole idea is rage-inducing. Argh!!!! I don't freakin care how stressful it is to be a soldier, NOTHING…

Stop saying they were "forced into prostitution." STOP.

Maybe it's just that all those couples who hadn't made the nasty in ages because why-are-you-nagging-me suddenly realized that life is short, we could die tomorrow, let's fuck. Multiply that by all of the 5 boroughs plus New Jersey, carry the 1, round up, and you have generally more sex = more babies.

To quote Homer Simpson, "Just because I don't care doesn't mean I don't understand."

I'm outraged that college athletic directors are paid 450k. No wonder tuition is expensive and we're all drowning in student debt.