Right? In what world would you expect to get an honest answer from the person accused of misconduct? Like, sure, “believe women” might be a bit too much for these guys just yet, but at least “don’t blindly believe men accused of sexual misconduct” seems like a workable principle.

I’m really bored of you putting words in my mouth. We disagree. I get it.

honey I’m sorry you’re just learning about the grays now, you must be new here.

BAN ICE TOO!!!

It think the biggest problem most people are making throughout this forum is there currently is a path to migrate here legally.

“it isn’t possible to integrate the amount of immigrants that want to come in any given year”

In order to concede that I am an outlier, I would need to see convincing data to show that I’m outside the norm on this. I haven’t seen it. And given that you apparently think that “women want to get married because biologically they want kids” and “being a single mother is tantamount to child abuse”, I don’t think…

I didn’t say that my personal experience was in the majority. But the OP said that

I honestly think my husband would have felt unmanned if I had proposed to him. Our gender dynamic is kind of skewed anyway, so I felt I had to give him that. He proposed to me rather straightforwardly in our living room after an attempt at a funny reveal with the cat and the ring didn’t work out. :\

my personal experience really went on in the U.S. You may not consider it typical, but that speaks to your bias (and OP’s).

I wanted a courthouse ceremony and a barbecue. My husband, because he had family coming from out of town, insisted on the whole shebang, to the tune of $24,000.

I wanted to ask my now-husband to marry me, and he implied, in no uncertain terms, that he wanted to be the one to ask. I also did not want a diamond wedding ring, and told him as much, and he got me one anyway.

... you know that’s not Nikki Minaj up there, right?

Plus how are you supposed to escape from bad guys when you can barely walk?

I know and that is why I will have mine fed on coconuts for six months prior to consumption to purge any gamey human flavor

lol jesus

Right? I know they’re terrifying, but I also know that I am desperate to eat one.

even with that weird mid-aughts haircut

honestly Felicity was *always* tottering around in minis and heels and I know that her current best self is business sorority but it bothered me that she never got to be comfortable

(but they have her back in miniskirts and heels in the VERY NEXT EPISODE!!!!!)