roguelemming
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roguelemming

I believe.

Hi guys. Fuck all of you who are going the “depressed and suicidal people are so selfish” route. Broken brains don’t work that way. Once again, fuck all of you.

This photo breaks my heart and I dearly hope all of this support reaches him and lifts some of the worry and sadness from his heart.

After Jez’s problematic headline the other day concerning mental illness, I’m loathe to say this here, but. He was either intending to do harm, or clearly suffers from something, PTSD or who knows. There’s no rational explanation for this otherwise. I’d say stupidity, but I’m not sure there’s a level of stupidity that

Good for her. I thought she looked a little flippant and cold, too, but she’s on the job, and in a job where she cannot take a stance based on personal feelings, whatsoever. She did a good job of keeping true to that and yet still conveying to him/the court that, as she had known him, he was (and hopefully still is in

Ah, no, I don’t consider that a situation that applies to the concept of ghosting. That, to me, is just “dating.” ;)

Life rule: when people do something crappy, call them out on it, bc there’s a chance they have no clue and will go through life being crappy and that is not good for anyone.

Nice and creepy are not mutually exclusive. FACT. ;)

Would “hey, I’m glad we got to spend time together, but I’m not sure I’d like to continue; [insert reason if applicable i.e. “I’m looking for something else right now”/”I’m not in a place where I can do this right now”/etc.]” be sufficient to the situation?

Falls under the “overbearing” and “creepy” categories.

There doesn’t need to be a sit-down. If there hasn’t been communication in awhile, that’s a friendship that is running its course and the “end” just sort of happens; I don’t qualify that as ghosting on either side. If there is some semblance of communication happening, the ghoster-in-waiting has ways to make the break

If my (ex? who knows, she ghosted!) best friend had just texted something like “Thanks, but I feel like we just don’t click the same way as we used to” in response to my “hey let’s get together soon!” texts, then it’d be acceptable. Relatively spineless way to end the friendship, while not being completely spineless

In relationships (established) or attempted relationships (dating), if the ghostee is:

The “I rest my case.” made it pretty evident. But I mean. There are actually people who think “scary” is legit. SO I HAD TO CHECK OK

Oh thank goodness. Sadly sometimes that’s not the case ;)

Phew. At least they haven’t ensnared FarmersOnly.com yet.

;)

Seriously. If that’s the quality of writing required to get rich, the Gawker staffers should be yachting it up.

I knew we were upper middle class when I was growing up, and it made me really uncomfortable, as we had a very unique house/property and that made my friends make a bigger deal out of my family’s financial status.

If I were a person struggling with mental illness, I would find this insulting,