Every time my husband and I ask people to hang out I feel like they’re going to think we’re inviting them to a swinger party. Being a grownup is awkward (or maybe just I am).

It is really hard. But if her show is any indication, she routinely sidelines any chance at female friendship in favor of the dudes in her life. If having female friends isn’t a priority, it’s unlikely that she will find any, especially with how difficult it already is to make new friends as an adult.

I always sort of go back and forth on things like this, because of course it’s easier to find a guy you want to fuck than it is to find a girl you want to develop a deep and lasting friendship with. I mean, it’s also easier to find a girl you want to fuck than a guy you want to develop a deep and lasting friendship…

Fox News is accusing Lindsay Lohan of being a cocaine addict

I know it’s popular to hate on them, but I’m happy for them. They seem like they really love their daughter and they do a lot of the dirty stuff themselves that they could have handed off to a nanny. They’ve publicly said how they want more kids, so good for them.

North knows what’s up and South knows how to get down. Sounds like pretty cool siblings.

His enemies will cower before him... and their wives will weep tears of blood... the Stallion Who Mounts the World.

Congrats to Kim and Kanye! Please, please give this baby a normal name.

Sweden is the country who gives shelter to the most immigrants relative per capita in Europe. Also, yes, idiots exist everywhere.

The thing is with generous social programs is that they pay off in the long run. Affordable daycare=more women in the workforce=more people paying income taxes. I live in a place with fairly generous social programs (long maternity leave, affordable daycare, medicare and free dental for kids under 12). This is purely…

Sweden is starting to look like a very nice place to live.

You’re the best, as always! In lieu of flowers, please accept this link. http://the-toast.net/2013/11/04/mal…

Pffft. Books about ladies can’t be harrowing tales of what war does to a man. To his very soul.

I’d really like to know more about the dude with the beer, who witnessed the initial act and then participated by accepting an unopened can of beer. Seems to me a decent human would say ssomething. I don’t get the impression from news reports that he did. It also doesn’t seem like others on the plane who saw/heard…

I’m as much shocked and disheartened by the response of the passengers as by anything else in this story. Leave religion out of the story. Don’t be dicks; be kind to other people. Not hard.

I believe her. Irl I regularly have to deal with old white people who call me a Pakistani terrorist upon seeing my brown skin and hearing my accent.

I cannot understand why no one spoke up for her. Especially when the bigot told her to shut the fuck up. No way in hell would I have kept my mouth shut.

YES. I am here for the metallic silver cornrows and the dress, it all goes so well together!

Yaaaaaaaassss. I’m so here for this new crop of teen and YA black celebs getting all up in their afro-futurist feels and daring to be weird in public. There’s room for that and I am SO EXCITED to see what kind of work they’ll be putting out into the world as they get older.

I second the Pinterest board, but it might not be as helpful until you real you understand your shape. I highly recommend looking at Trinny Woodall & Susannah Constantine’s tips on identifying your shape and understanding how to dress it (they’re the stars of the original Britsh version of What Not to Wear). They…