Craig Gurian, the executive director of the Anti-Discrimination Center in New York, offered a blunt (and perhaps obdurate) defense of New York City’s public accommodations law: “To the extent that there are workplaces or public accommodations that have inappropriate behavior, the solution is to fix those workplaces or…

I don’t find them impressive. Anyone can jerk their hair around.

Basically the trigger warning triggered people.

I love how this same article could be written about HamNo, swapping the excerpts for excerpts from any of his articles, and the names.

IF he did you wouldn’t know it from reading Jezebel because they only care if he criticizes women. He could go after 100 men and 2 women and Jezebel would make it seem that he exclusively hates women.

Poor thing. He didn’t kn about Black Twitter before today, did he, bless his heart.

he wanted to “reflect on the school shooting and soak it in.”

The writer of the article reminds me of feminists, wants the benefits of traditional gender roles with none of the obligations that come with traditional gender roles.

Child, someonething in the buttermilk ain’t clean.

Man, I’ve known women who brag about having had a free meal after going on an unsuccessful date and it always sounds so grimey to me.

“In those types of scenarios, I am more inclined to offer to split the bill or just pay the bill outright sometimes because we have a bigger involvement than just casually seeing each other. I am more invested in the relationship, and therefore more invested in the person, so splitting the check or taking turns paying…

Right. If someone had a problem with someone else’s salary, it’s ego or jealousy. That’s a personal problem.

All these questions rest on an assumption of how a man’s value, in his own mind (if not society’s) is tied to his financial worth at least with regards to the woman he’s in a relationship with. And that’s just a sad and worthless calculation.

If a woman is “side-eyeing” me on the first date until I pay for the tab, she isn’t getting a second date. I’ll always pay the bill on the first date, just how it works for me personally, but to act all uppity and not even offer to split (even if I’ll reject it) just screams entitlement to me. I don’t see how you can…

I used to have certain rules in my head back when I was single and much younger about how a relationship was supposed to go. I’m not sure if others in long relationships can agree with this sentiment, but now that I’ve been with my partner for years and it’s an excellent partnership, I’ve learned that there are no…

I’m looking for a grown ass woman and not some teenaged girl who’s images of love and respect come from shitty romcoms.

That’s right! I will continue to criticize movies for not prominently featuring real female characters, since I’m a woman, but I’m not black so I’ll be damned if I accept that “but there are no black people with actual people roles in this movie” is a valid criticism.

The modern progressive sentiment that all art has to be everything for everyone got draining a while ago. The most recent example was the small strain of criticism for Black Panther not including a storyline highlighting LGBT issues through the Dora Milaje.

It’s so surprising she can’t find a good man with that winning attitude.

I thought that this episode displayed an outdated truth that only applies to an older generation of black women. From my (anecdotal) observations, this is less of an issue for younger black women as they are less averse to dating non-black men and the subsequent expanded dating pool makes dating less of a struggle.