no she is referring to the “it” as herself which is why i wrote that she was deploying black men as “both object and misogynist,” although i’m mad now that i didn’t write “both object and objectifier,” as parallelism would have been better writing. fuck.
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the entire staff has turned over almost twofold since then
the false equivalency was nails on a chalkboard. thank you for saying something.
It reminds me very much of the “Well I’m personally just fine with it, therefore it isn’t a problem for anyone” blanket statements. It’s pretty myopic at best.
Having experienced both a burst ovarian cyst and a rape, I wouldn’t consider them to be comparable experiences. And I resent the fuck out of the idea that because I or other women have gone through X, I should be totally down with any jokes about Y. Maybe some people can. Others can’t and shouldn’t have to.