You meant “no offence”? THEN WHY DID YOU SAY IT THEN, YOU DUMBASS?!? Apology NOT accepted. You should feel bad for the stupid crap you said, I’m not going to give you absolution to make you feel better

Most of them were just surprised that we deal with this shit every day, but I had a few that were like “but it’s just a compliment.”

I have tattoos that camouflage my cutting scars. How do.you like that you judgemental little twit?

I think we also need to speak to our kids/loved ones in equal parts “be careful” and “don’t do that.” Which is hard, because we always want to believe that our loved ones would never, ever do that.

You don’t like tattoos, that’s fine. Don’t get them. Don’t shame how others choose to decorate their body.

I get that tattoos are not for everyone and personal taste and all that, but equating tattoos to self-harm is pretty shitty.

I miss George W. Bush.

Someone in another comment made the distinction between being clingy and being a worrier, which I hadn’t thought of, but totally applies. I don’t think I’m actually clingy, but I worry and I also love knowing what to expect—this solution lets me assuage those worries and get that info without bugging my partner.

While this is true......

I find myself far more curious about the hair band in front of the sink (a coded message to Selena?), and the black powder dusted to the side. Charcoal for brushing teeth? Speaking of which, his toothbrush is in the middle of the sink? Signaling laziness? Creativity? Eccentricity? So he is always apprised of its…

The problem with most white folks is that many of them will apologize or excuse this kind of behavior. They see it as an anomaly instead of its true endemic nature. When white people decide, en masse, that they need to hold themselves to a higher standard, hopefully we will see less of this kind of behavior. There’s…

I hope Ted Cruz’s father was on the grassy knoll. We don’t have enough controversy and stuff to argue about anymore.

If their parents aren’t straight up modeling this behavior, they’re ignoring it. As someone who’s constantly debating my All Lives Matter, “Kaepernick isn’t playing because his stats” coworkers, I never underestimate the ability for white people to gaslight themselves into an oblivious wonderland where they’re not…

THIS! What the fuck is going on at your house that makes your child think “I’ll simulate gang rape on some n—-!” Are they being abused? Do their parents wax on poectly on rape? Did they leave the videos of them in their white hoods out?

I GARONTEE the Beckizillas and Chads won’t be all up in this comment section discussing and decrying this incident.

i’m an autistic woman and i’ve tried to have this conversation with that particular commenter before—he is very stuck in his mindset and very limited in his ability to imagine other people’s perspectives, and he’s a terrible listener when the speaker/typer is female. these factors don’t bode well to make this guy less…

“when women experience sexual assault and harassment, it seems like it is rarely in a social setting”—what?

Why do guys always insist on the socially awkward pass? Like women aren’t socially awkward, like we just all magically are able to read all body language, understand all subtext, and parse all hidden meanings?

Oh God, it’s you. I remember you from about a year ago, because you made such an impression. Basically you came across as a misogynist. I remember that you thought most women were shallow, boring and racist. That women had nothing interesting to say and never will. You are having trouble with women because you have no…

Unfortunately, people in many instances always ignore the golden rule of social relationships: If you have the same issue over and over, then the only constant is yourself. It’s not a grand conspiracy, you’re not some special person that others don’t “get”, you’re just missing the social contract.