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Hang in there! It's so tough, I know. And I know now it is tough on the guys too, they want to come through for us (and for them, obviously, my husband really wanted a baby too and was getting frustrated) and the pressure sometimes just gets to them.

I think it's mostly MRAs. Shit, I watched a cute Cheerios commercial on YouTube this morning that someone had posted to FB. It was about the greatness of dads, totally adorbs. And the FIRST comment was some MRA complaining about how "the feminists" will say the ad sucks because it portrays men positively. Then he

I thought about dismissing, but then I wouldn't be able to tell you what a butt munch you are. Women who choose pain management during labor are "uneducated"? Seriously, go shit in the ocean.

Reformed texter & driver here. I wasn't glued to my phone or anything, but I'd pick it up and reply to texts I heard coming in, usually when at a stop light but let's be honest I wouldn't throw my phone down the moment it turned green. You know what actually worked? Those damn PSA's. Particularly the ones where the

Not only that, but our son was born in January and I am already four months pregnant with #2. O_o We had sex like four times and boom I was pregnant again. Whooooops unpredictable fertility.

Yeah, we have a high bed, we've done that before, also the bathroom counter. It would be nice if my feet didn't touch the ground but I suppose it's not a deal breaker.

Are you sure your name isn't Admiral Pedantic?

The ones with Oberyn just made me sad. :'(

Ahahahahaa on the stairs position. My husband is desperate to do it while standing up. But he's tall, I'm average, and we just do not line up! And as a fat, I wouldn't even want him to attempt to lift me up and do it standing up that way. One time while drunk and trying it, I was like "I should just stand on

Woah, that's even smaller than my smallest. Probably about as big around as a magic marker, and maybe 2 or 3 inches. I absolutely couldn't feel it. We only had sex twice. I felt kind of bad for the guy. He was good at head though.

It is almost too depressing to share. When my husband and I had been trying unsuccessfully to get pregnant for a year, I was starting to really lose it. So was he, but mostly because he knew how on the brink of things I was. The worst sex we ever had or ever will have was in the middle of this. It was pretty standard,

Just register for stuff, and trust me, depending on how long your guest list is, you'll still get a ton of cash. I got almost every gift on our fairly long and traditional registry (granted, I also had three bridal showers, woof—my family threw one, his family threw one, and my work threw one, holy crap) AND we still

You're not crazy, they are usually in September. This move is befuddling.

Well this guy does seem like a douche, but SW's policy on family boarding is actually just for kids 4 and under. So unless his kids were in B group it's doubtful they'd get to sit together.

And despite being a failed novelist, he somehow had a fab Manhattan apartment AND a house in the Hamptons! Before he turned into an insecure douche he was my favorite Carrie boyfriend. How she went from him to the uptight, humor-free (and, sorry, old as the hills) Petrovsky is beyond me on a number of levels.

Me too. :(

Can we just have an all-Tina Belcher gif thread? Butts-related or not?

Or even just a baby being there can kill it. My son slept in our room for his first three months, and the handful of times we worked up the energy to do it while he was sleeping, I still felt creeped out and distracted just knowing he was in the room. We were both pretty excited when he moved into his own room.

I agree with the sentiment, but you know that would be a shitshow if it were ever allowed to play out in practice. I mean, some sort of mental health litmus test for having kids? Yikes.

Did he identify her by name in said essay? If not, there was no real need to get "her side of the story" out about it. Or, if she must, perhaps my objections are mostly to everyone in the comments thinking she is a victim in all this. I just don't see it. He asked for more, she said no, he said "well okay then, have a