As a white woman, I have felt unsafe since he won Tuesday night, so I can’t even begin to imagine the living nightmare you are going through right now. I know they’re only words from a stranger on the internet, but I stand with you my fellow American. You’ll always have a seat at my table.

So you want and expect to benefit from a Clinton presidency while actively working against making that happen all so you can feel morally superior? Cool.

OMG, I just realized that is a very real possibility for me. Here’s hoping we’re both sobbing for joy come Tuesday.

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Amen. I’ve always thought he was handsome, but seeing that photo above, the outfit combined with the enthusiasm, well, it’s the first time any U.S. president has me heading off to my bunk.

Oh I agree. Merely pointing out that regardless of intent, several of the words in both statement can be found offensive because Donald! It’s the 2016 Hellscape Word Search.

Also “our women” because of course he only sees us in a possessive manner, not, ya know, independent human beings.

While a freshman in college, I went to my second ever gyno visit. The doctor was a very sweet woman, but being newly 18 and without virginity, I was of course incredibly uncomfortable. Staring at the comforting, soft focus ceiling poster of a kitten in a flower basket and giving rote answers to questions about…

Anecdotal, but one of my best high school friends went to Georgetown undergrad with Eric Trump. I still remember her frantic phone call one Saturday afternoon telling me about how the previous night at a party, Eric came up to her while she was dancing, started grinding on her, and then turned her around to shove…

Anyone else mentally conjure up this dude while reading “Ramsey” and “murder” over and over again?

Based on the pilot and an interview I read on EW.com with the showrunners, I think part of the point of the show is to skewer people who would want to participate in that fantasy. I get the sense that it’s more of a criticism of fantasy wish fulfillment (and by extension our commodification of violence for…

Yes, this exact thought process all the damn time. For me, therapy has been the biggest help. I still have these thoughts, but I’m much more able to recognize them for what they are and ignore them. I hate this word, but it sure is a “journey.”

Thanks! I really can’t stress how much therapy helped. I still have the paranoid, suspicious thoughts, but now I’m much more able to recognize them as such and move past them. Good luck to you as well!

“The first time Arran showed up at my door with an armful of roses, an easy smile spread across his face, I felt a strong sense of aversion. His kindness made me uncomfortable. Wholeheartedness wasn’t something I was accustomed to. It became a practice to not pull away.”

I read it as PlayStation, so you are not alone.

Yes! Definitely incorporating that into my vocab. My friends and I coined a related term “D2G.” In this case, you’re aware and acknowledge the guy is a total piece of shit, but you sleep with him anyway because that dick too good.

Rihanna got it at Bang Bang by the guy who owns the shop. He’s a pretty well known artist and him/the shop always posts pics of their work.

I did also. Which surprises me as I’ve been very invested in the Kruger/Jackson relationship/breakup.

This is true. I once got off the subway in Brooklyn and accidentally walked through a Girls shoot on my way home.

I’m a natural red, just lighter than auburn. I definitely used to judge against strawberries and dye jobs. But, after several years of hearing “you’re so lucky you have pretty red hair instead of carrot top hair,” from many a non follicularly blessed individual, I support all reds.