Rape is what scary guys do, when they jump out from behind bushes carrying knives. What they themselves do is just a misunderstanding, not rape!

Many modern women have been scammed into imagining that men no longer act this way, and that if they themselves remain silent, or do not repeat their refusals, or freeze up, they will be perceived as being not-consenting. But this is a scam.

I think it’s a lot of coercion, I don’t think enough men believe coercion can be rape.

This. No means no until I overpower you.

I once had a date invite himself into the bathroom in my apt, push me onto the bed, and rape me. When he finished and I pushed him off (he was 6'4-I’m 5'6) and told him what he did was wrong and I was upset, he was BAFFLED. He was upset and kept apologizing. I had been saying “no stop. Please stop it hurts” during the…

And boys need to learn early that they should be actively looking for the signs of a “no” just as much as they want to find signs of a “yes” if they care to avoid hurting people.

Am I missing something in Spurlock’s post? I don’t understand the “Light Bright” thing. Or are we not supposed to understand it?

What?! No way. We all know that when a female says she doesn’t want to have sex, it means they just aren’t turned on or in the mood so the dude has to work harder to get his lady ready to go to Bonetown! C’mon brah, everyone knows that!

How many of us have had this happen, the no is accepted but they keep trying. Ten mins later, twenty...basically if you stay and continue to chat or laugh or lay next to them or even kiss, they’ll try again.

I get so uncomfortable about the desire for people to suffer that goes against base tenets of mental health.

Saying “sorry”, even once, would’ve been a good start.

I’ve been wondering about this too, not from a “how to forgive the men” perspective, more like a “how men should now behave to make it stop” perspective. Public admission, tell other men not to be like this, and then...?Def him retweeting accolades kinda ruins it for me.

I had a classmate in high school who would constantly say my name, followed by “slob my knob.” It happened in a few different classes and everyone just always giggled while I saw there feeling mortified. I knew my one teacher could hear him but would pretend that she didn’t, which felt like such a betrayal (as a woman…

Whatever, as long as the stress kills him, I don’t care how it happens.

Every sentence of this article was a delight to read. The way it was written not the subject so much.

No, but again Trump shows he knows nothing of moderation and constraint

So....my curse is finally taking effect.

I mean, this probably was ok for the koi (I have 50% of fish knowledge) but I’m pretty sure they are prone to overeating - I think all fish are? I don’t really know, I just know a friend did this to my poor betta fish about 8 years ago (as in I had a cute small box for the food and counter to my explicit instructions…

Agreed.I won’t use brown rice when making vegetable stir fry, tried it once, didn’t taste “right”.

So we’re just gonna leave fried rice out of the discussion?