Nope if the relationship is good you have to fight for it. relationships have never been easy but now a days people just quit the moment it get a little bit difficult.

I've been talking about this with my friends lately. People aren't even singing slow jams anymore, no love ballads, nothing. Where is the modern day Lenny Williams to cry for 7 minutes in a song for his woman to just talk to him?

True fact adoption kills puppies.

You're insulting black people when you ask them to explain the black experience to you. Black people are not a monolith. It's hurtful and hateful to always have to explain our humanity to white people like you who see us as other and demand that we speak for the entire race. Please stop. But before you do, please read…

You're still here? Fine I'll indulge you one last time.

When I was younger I had all the time and energy in the world to argue with people even if they started out by saying annoying things like "that comment was terrible"

No I believe you don't pay attention to what you are reading and have an emotional reaction because you are so easily angered.

I'm ignoring your first two paragraphs because I feel that they have little to do with what we are truly discussing and they're just a distraction.

Well consider this when a couple facing the problem of infertility wants to have a child what are the solutions? Fertility treatments, surrogacy and adoption. Other solutions are variations on those three. When we talk about size discrimination the number of solutions are a lot longer than 3 and diet and exercise…

You overreacted and you know it which is why you back-pedalled in your second response to me.

Just as interpreting my original comment as saying adoption is easy is unfair. My response was sarcastic, hers was serious.

Adoption is hard, no one is saying it isn't. But in your response to me you said that I did think it was as easy as picking out a puppy. Which is bad because you don't know what I'm thinking and you took that moment to proselytize. Not cool.

(your last response was too short to reply too but this one wasn't ho ho!)

If everyone agreed with you this article would not be in existence. But here it is.

Your comparison is problematic because size discrimination and diet are no where near as closely related as infertility and adoption.

I don't need to write an essay to express a simple sentiment. If you can't be assed to understand don't act hurt when someone turns up the snark.

But they are not the same. How hard is it to understand that?

Slaybelle are you truly not comprehending the two simple sentences that I wrote? I'm aware of adoption being a costly process. My snark comes from roderica ignoring what my comment said and just posting some knee jerk reaction to what someone may have said to her/him 20 years ago. Which has nothing to do with what I…

Dear Onezillion,