Hopefully just a pinkie though, or one of the little toes. You need thumbs and big toes.

Holy shit, is that distress call for real? My cats just freaked the fuck out!

Most days I want to say invisible is better, because at least you're being ignored rather than singled out for negative attention. But invisibility has its own hurt as well sometimes. (Not just talking about men and dating here, but about that everyday thing when someone cuts in front of you in a queue, or a shop…

I totally understand what you're saying, and if that's been your experience that if you just think positive and act positive then people will behave positively towards you, then I'm happy for you. (That's genuine, not sarcasm.) But please don't dismiss other people's personal experience just because it doesn't match…

Just wanted to say that I'm hearting you, as a fellow ugly woman who has absolutely no idea how these creeps have developed this insane idea that we're so much better off than they are, and is over this concept that on top of whatever positive qualities a woman possesses, she had better also be at least "average…

Do we know who's playing Not Bella Swan yet? For some reason I'm kind of seeing Emmy Rossum.

There's a remake of 'Straw Dogs'?

Well to be fair there was also a lot of Australian criticism of the 'Hey Hey It's Saturday' thing, because people are becoming inceasingly vocal about racism and discrimination in our entertainment industry. So it's not like all of Australia was uniformly okay with it.

This is the movie that's made me realise how uncomfortable I sometimes am with the whole "In order to understand degradation and horror we must show it". Like, will the movie be all "Degradation, violence against women and sexual exploitation are bad. Now look at beautiful Amanda Seyfried being degraded, abused and…

I am a conventionally ugly woman who sometimes gets told what an ugly cunt I am by guys on the street, and who has been approached in bars by guys to tell me how ugly I am, or once by a guy who said he knew he had no chance with my beautiful friend but he was willing to settle for me (my friend threw her drink in his…

I feel guilty about this, but when I see/hear/read women defending men's misogyny with the "I'm not offended by it, other women need to get a sense of humor" thing, I want to say "No matter how hard you try to be cool in their eyes, they will never, ever respect you, and you won't ever get into the boy's club".

Do you happen to know if it was after someone else called Kermit, or because he came from a culture with that name? Or was it the frog. I'd always thought, if I had been a boy (I know I'm adopted and so this conversation makes no sense) and I had been called Kermit, until I was able to change it by deed poll I'd just…

And not named for a beloved ancestor or similar. Named for the frog, obviously.

The phone tucked in bra isn't just a young person thing. Once I asked a co-worker in her 50s if I could borrow her phone to get a number from her phone book, she said sure and produced it from where it was tucked down her top between her breasts.

I wasadopted as a baby and my first and last names are totally whitebread. I love that thing where people read my name first, then meet me in person and their faces do that "Oh, you're... less white than I expected you to be" thing, for a split second.

If I'd been a boy, my parents were going to call me Kermit, because they wanted a 'K' name and out of all the possible boy names starting with 'K', 'Kermit' is what stuck.

You mean instead of just status updating, they go to someone else's wall to have a sad? That's... odd.

Have you listened to the unabridged audio book reading of 'Carrie' she's done? It's FUCKING GREAT!!

I did like 'Triangle' but that's about the only thing I've really loved her performance in.

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