To get over him I would recommend staying busy with friends and other interests and by not giving yourself permission to think about him or go out of your way to talk to him. Mainly just give yourself time.

This guy doesn't sound right for you. He's too old for starters ( there's a huge difference between you, someone who was a teenager just a few years ago and a guy in his 30s) and he's non-conformist and you're not.

Have you read Curious Squid's posts about being a sex worker? Maybe they would help.

Go back and read every single one of your posts in this thread. The instances of you being sanctimonious are too numerous to list here and I doubt you'll be able to see it anyway. You can start with where you called meat eaters self-hating or whatever term it was you used to describe them.

Teens of 14 can't LEGALLY consent. That's not a "stupid myth". No one is saying that kids don't have sexual feelings.

You say you're not a sanctimonious, preachy vegetarian but you've done nothing but preach sanctimoniously...

Obese is a medical term; fat is not. Pretty odd you don't know that.

Oh, my! Way to miss the point here. This poor kid has TWO problems right now. One-she's exposed to a child molester. Two-her mother is letting her damage her health by eating too much or she's eating her feelings about her chaotic and dangerous home life. Why is that so hard for you to see? Honey Boo Boo was not this…

Being naturally tall and thin with a natural tendency toward anemia is not at all the same as being unnaturally obese because your mother stuffed you with junk food and possibly neglected you to the point you eat your feelings. You're talking about two completely different things. That said, the other poster was out…

I agree. I think his continued popularity is a function of his astute publicity machine that buried the allegations, his power, and the reluctance of the media to take on a venerable, connected star without a preponderance of evidence and a conviction or trial. I don't think it's that the women alleging rape against…

Chicks being sent through the mail has been occurring in the US since the 1800s. It's a valid way to ship the chicks if done correctly and not horrible at all.

Beyoncé being a pillar of feminism is the saddest thing I've heard all week.

No, no owner is obligated to pay tens of thousands for an animal's health care. Basic vet care, shots, spaying or neutering, and treatment for injuries or minor illnesses, yes. Treatment for catastrophic illnesses running into thousands and thousands of dollars, no. Sometimes the humane thing is to put an animal down…

What is wrong with people? Why would someone go up to a stranger and tell them they had a big nose? Ugh!

Ha ha. He does looks odd there. Maybe he's sharting his pants again.

The supposed joke here is that it's well known that Ryan hates being short. It's body shaming, though so it's really not funny, in my opinion. Dude can't help that he's short.

Congrats! Glad you got a girl after all those boys.

Sometimes people want to do these types of emails - thinking about whether to write, pondering over what to say, polishing the wording, etc. - as a way of staying connected to the beloved. It's not a conscious thought at all. But it's better for you if you just move on.

Try it!

What horrible people they are! Block their numbers and never speak to either one again. Disgusting spineless cretins trying to make themselves feel better about their own useless lives by tearing you down.