professionalwidow
Professional Widow
professionalwidow

So, you literally wave and say howsit to every single person on the street? I mean, what do you expect, anyway? The question is rhetorical at best and threatening at worst depending on the situation. I cant tell you to stop but as long as you're fine getting a hard ignore from people, whatever.

it's cute that you can judge something that does not happen to you!

Fine. say how's it going all you want to women on the street you dont know. I can't stop you. but I can ask that you expect nothing from her in return

I used to work at a motel and UGH! I actually had to quit because of the insane amount of harassment.

Cool story, bro. Let's see how how you react the next time someone who said hello to you that you ignored follows you for several blocks. OR calls you a fucking cunt. or shoots you like what happened in MY city last summer when a woman rebuffed a cat call. Or again in MY city where a man was beaten to a pulp because

If you said this to me, on the street or at a bus stop, I would find this annoying, creepy and harassing yes. I would ignore you.
If I were in a bar or club then fine. Because I am there to socialize.

It's also your job as someone in the service sector to speak to customers in your store. it is not your job as a woman walking around to respond to every man who speaks to you.

Booooooooy, you just don't really get it. I have never heard a woman complain that she wasn't hollared at on the street. However, I DO hear women complain that their voices are not heard in school and at work and in their homes. Maybe that's the difference?
And yeah, it you are at a club or a party or a bar and maybe

Yeah, I understand this could be geographical or cultural, which is why I stated "in my experience". I live in Philadelphia, and I honestly have never seen what appear to be two men who don't know one another, greet each other.
Still there are a lot of factors here that don't make this gender neutral. Meaning that

I mean, I can't say you're wrong. But in the past couple of hours I have been asking my male friends about this and they all say no. That the only times they give the nod is when they are at work or school and they have a built-in relationship with those men. Never randos on the street.

I live in Philly and I do both. The only communication I see among fellow bikers/runners is to "at your left" or something related. I have never witnessed cyclists just casually wave to other cyclists on the street. we are too busy not getting hit by doorflingers

just the phrase alone, no. Gotta look at the context.

I know, right? Never mind ALL THE CREEPY OTHER SHIT and the DAMNs and everything else.

Here's the thing. In my experience, I NEVER, literally NEVER see men casually greet each other on the street unless they know each other. These men are throwing out seemingly harmless greetings in hopes you will turn and want to talk. Or they may just want a smile. Sorr,y but I only smile when I feel smiley, not

can i get followed and get ungrey? i dont deserve this! I want to sit with you guys!

He's my #1 celebrity fuck of all tiiiiiiiiiiiime, dead or alive

are you saying black people get a pass at wearing fur? why? I apologize if I misunderstood what you said.

that's amazing. yes, she was lovely before and I agree with the sentiments here about the dangers of celebrating plastic surgery. But, ugh, at 33 I'm starting to see my pretty face go away and I'm bummed about it. I totally get her motivations.

never tmi with me!