I actually thought that maybe that’s because white women are essentially the beauty standard, so they of course are held up to the most stringent standards. All my life, for instance, I have been surrounded by black women who don’t shave. This is only anecdata, of course, but growing up I was obsessed with whatever…

Me too... but the reason why older people (older than me... and I’m in my early 40s) are illiterate is usually because of other reasons... like English not being their first language, home schooling or having dropped out of school.

I have been using a safety razor on my face and I JUST realized I was using it wrong, I was doing long strokes instead of the small up and down strokes that wipe the hair off the blade for each new cut.

I’ve gone down on hairy women many times... and the key is to part the lips first and then go in. Keeps the flossing to a minimum.

“Cawlege freshmen are particulatly alitteratre these days.”

Well, there you go. Every person has their things they find a turn on or turn off.

Err, nope. Not what I argued at all. Don’t know how you got that from the actual words I typed. Please enjoy continuing to read whatever you like into the words of other people.

There’s plenty of guys in porn with totally bald junk, too. The difference is that we kind of just laugh at it, or go “not for any money, man”. What we don’t do is become angry at how he was brutalized by women’s expectations. He’s just a guy who either wanted or was persuaded to wax his weenus.

Not everything has to be a big “the pressures women face” kind of thing.

“What a surprise that white women are more likely to groom!” Are you suggesting white women are more interested in grooming? Why? I guess you intend this to criticize white women as a group, but regardless, there is a stereotype that can offend other racial groups.

Yea, it wasn’t all it was cracked up to be though. Jerk off sessions usually consisted of me complimenting myself repeatedly!

people just need to trim. it’s better to putt on a green than in the sand.

I don’t know about anyone here, but I feel that cleaning up is good for not getting ingrown hairs and rashes and what not.

Also, when I date a woman, I always offer a shave. If I’m gonna ride it, I’m gonna customize it.

My wife shaved hers once for a kink thing, but ended up liking it so much she kept it up. Not complaining :)

I’m basically a caveman, left to its own devices, my bush would probably grow to engulf my entire person.

For real, it’s just common courtesy for both partners. While I wouldn’t mind if I was surprised with a shaped topiary or a even a full-on Brazilian (neither of which will ever happen), just the once over with the trimmer is fine. The same is true in reverse (including the never gonna happen parts). 🚫🌳

I was doing a mental countdown until Sophie spun the narrative towards a fantasy of victimhood. Was not disappointed.

So so typical. Truth is the majority of guys have no complaint if a vagina is waxed smooth as a peach or just trimmed, some even like the full 70's wildnerness. Very very few guys will go through the effort of having a fight with their significant other over the issue. At most, when a guy’s lady suggests he shave his…

My gf has made it clear that not keeping the hair under control will lead to no blow jobs. So I keep it groomed.

I’m sure this will be a productive comment thread. When my face is in that area I prefer to not have a bunch of hair involved. Do I make my girlfriend follow some stringent waxing schedule? No. I just prefer not to have a lot of stuff going on down there.