To me she just has a classy thing going. It’s not like if I just saw one picture of her circa 30 Rock I’d be like, WOWZA. I feel like it’s comparable to the type of “distingushed” older dude handsome that we see all the time

“as the term applies today” wait wut, what does that mean. It would have been harassment at some point but not now?

I like how he doesn’t even consider that there would be reasons to need quotas for the positions he’s talking about beyond how it looks. He can only comprehend it in terms of career “fairness”. But the positions are MOMA director and journalist. You straight up *can not* have only white men doing that. Exclusively…

I don’t think that’s a woman thing. I’ve been with I think 6 men and 3 of them could not and would not communicate. One only wanted girl on top with zero effort.

It’s always interesting to me how different people take to different substances. I hate hallucinagens, coke was just annoying, weed also annoying. Alcohol I love but not to a point of getting sick. I can’t be around nicotine though. I smoke one at a party and then it suddenly like 30 packs later trying to be like…

No, it isn’t. You don’t understand logic as a reasoning system. Also you just called me stupid after all your complaining about seeming young, are you serious lol

I always worry about it. One time I was watching one as a teenager (amateur seeming but there was a camera guy) and it got to the end and it became clear that the actress was heavily drugged, in retrospect most of the positions she was kind of not active, and then a nonconsensual act happened while the guys laughed.…

I get that if I was a writer, I wouldn’t *always* double check e.g. If the president told me he grabs women’s genitals, then I’m printing that. But if someone is my “friend”, as she’s claiming, and I was going to use their words for my book, I would NEVER not run the printed version of a quote like this by them.

I don’t know for sure if it’s the same in California, but I work in Oregon and the tax rate on bonuses is a lot higher than that. I’m in a middle income bracket and my bonuses get taxed at about 40-50%, much higher than regular income

I mean... I don’t think sexual felonies are just being dumb. I get that there could be a less predatory way for it to happen but it isn’t just being dumb. I did stuff with an 18 year old when I was 20, he was the completely the one pursuing it and I still made hella extra sure he was really 18 before *anything*, and…

Unrealated but idk how I feel about that image over that headline, was that looked at and approved? That’s the most horrifying thing I’ve seen in a long time, maybe that’s good but it’s clearly not the picture from this moment in court... like jesus I just am looking at a monster cackling about remembering his…

Lol that’s not ad hominem. I wasn’t saying your age has anthing to do with your ideas about eye color or “arguments”, since you want to perceive whatever this convo is that way. If you feel that your age would dismiss your ideas on the simple fact of change to the eye (I don’t), I was certainly not bringing that up…

Right that’s what I’m saying, but the point is that your example of female top nudity vs either male top nudity or male bottom nudity isn’t necessarily exactly the same legally or culturally either.

I mean, ok, I’m not really convinced because your online behavior is odd for an adult but sure. Anyway, you are reiterating over and over details that have nothing to do with the overall point. Forest through the trees

Well if she was on the show, I wonder if Cosby abused her

But that wouldn’t make sense either, if they were on the ground with opportunity to cover him. If nudity is so criminal, why not cover the person of there’s opportunity? Also, I don’t think being topless is illegal as opposed to genitalia exposure, which it seems like would be involved in a dude streaking. Unless it…

Yeach for sure, which is why I think it’s b.s. They are a feminist blog, but if they get held to that standard then “we’re not a feminist blog”. And they’ve never retracted that or said otherwise.

I mean you are probably older than 10 but under 18 I’m guessing. It’s not a falsecond equivalance, you are overthinking the concept and I don’t think you understand the basic idea of what environmental influenced changes are

I was in a relationship that fell apart and I strongly suspect that something happened to him, although he would laugh at me every time I asked him. He had strong negative reactions to sexual touching especially if unexpected, and he would not want to talk about it and accuse me of demasculating him for trying to talk…

Sure, but in that case you don’t think that white colonialism has created global power imbalance?