I’m totally recovering from being Mean Girled by coworkers at my old office job. One woman and I were immediate good friends, but when she started dating another coworker of ours and he dumped her, I stayed friends with them both, and she completely ostracized me to the point where I was so miserable when I was at…

*eye roll*

Seriously with the armchair psychologizing?

LOL

Jesus

I didn’t say it HAD to be abusive. I think you can ghost for any reason and it doesn’t make you a dick. You’re just doing what you have to do.

Nah, I’m not going to put myself in an uncomfortable/dangerous/wrong situation just so some dude can get “closure.” I believe that you do whatever it takes to end an interaction that isn’t working for you, and if that means ghosting, you ghost.

Ghosting all day errday

Bullshit premise is bullshit. :)

I’m just saying I don’t presume to know WHY women that I don’t know are making out with each other. Just like I don’t presume to know why anyone does anything without asking them or talking to them. I think that’s PRETTY reasonable, as I don’t like people to presume to know why I do things, because my intentions may…

I did the same thing and I got a message from some guy trying to logic me out of it by saying “you know what they’re thinking because the question says so” and I was like “just because the question is flawed/biased/bigoted/written by a sad MRA doesn’t mean I have to answer it as such???”

It’s like the match question on Okcupid, “Women who make out with other women for attention are...” Then they give you options like “So annoying!” or “Incredibly hot!” And all I can think is, how do you know WHY women are making out with each other?? Just because the question presumes that they are doing it for male…

Yeah totally. I would never stand at the very front of a standing-only show!

Pretty much all of this. Every time I go to a show I hear huffing and whispering behind me, and often hear shuffling and switching of seats.

My life is on an airplane is a nightmare unless I’m sitting with family/friends who don’t mind me squishing into their space. Lol or at least they act like they don’t mind. Flying alone is one of my biggest phobias because I’m terrified the person I sit next to is going to be an ass.

That’s a great solution. You’re an asshole.

We do know the vulnerability that comes with being a woman, so why don’t you pipe the fuck down, because you’re being a complete ass.

Sorry but saying it’s harder for a 5’10” woman to disappear into a back of a van than a 5’0” woman is just plain stupid. The space they occupied before being abducted isn’t somehow more noticeable. This is just a weird comparison to make.

You should feel bad for not being more sympathetic. That’s a dick thing to say.

I agree with always seeing at concerts or at the theater, but I can’t tell you how many times I’ve sat down in my assigned seat and heard people behind me fussing and sighing because I’m blocking their view.