Also, the men dont feel threatened by female “creeps” because, well, it’s not that common for a rejected woman to stalk, belittle, harass, assault, or kill a man for turning her down. It’s sadly far too common that a rejected man acts this way, and we can’t know what sort you are from a single slightly off-putting…

Yes, I would, and have. But I’m temperamentally unfit for this type of workplace structure, which is why I’m self employed and work alone. Very happily.

Women were scared. There, fixed it for him. Ffs I can’t believe anyone truly believes this... The era that birthed modern feminism *wasnt* great for women, just the dudes. Otherwise why did we bother fighting for equality and sexual agency? Goddamn.

Disagree, though I see your point. I think it’s important not to turn away from the darkness. I think it’s inportant to share these stories on any medium, especially if the victim is closely involved in the production. Because it’s giving them a voice and a platform, and helping to rehabilitate their sense of agency.…

Oh yeah I must have forgotten about the thriving, well-known and active gay community everyone’s heard about on the banks of the salt lake.... /s

PEEK into her life. I get upset about pique/peak/peek, please honor the language that gives you your living. ❤️

It’s hard, and awful, I get that. It’s so easy to turn away. But that’s what the monsters who live in the dark want us to do, to turn away. I know I’m my daughters only line of defense against this type of thing, and that’s why I always look. (And as a woman with a history of sexual abuse and assault, I always look.)

As a person who spent her twenties desperate to not turn into her worthless bitch of a mother (I didn’t!), I came here to say what you’ve just written so well.

Your posts seem to me like you’re a few websites short of being a full on MRA. Maybe I caught you at a weird time. Get your heart right and women will quit smelling the fedora stink on you and running the opposite direction.

And yet, every year, millions of men date millions of women... I hear your confusion and angst but let’s not go overboard with the hyperbole.

He’s still mid-transition... I was raised in the church (not Mormon but deeply religious/controlling), and to leave is a process, mentally... it’s leaving a whole culture, and not being able to shake the thought that maybe the religion is right about all the things after all. But then, one realises over time that…

Right? I’d say first, dude, find a coast... UTAH??

He does now. In our relationship I’m generally the more critical/suspicious person, and he’s the laid back guy who is everyone’s friend and tends to think the best of people.. So my slow-burning paranoia and his refusal to see it sorta played into those roles. But yeah he listens to me now about “tricky people.”

I’m sorry this happens to you. My mother was severely emotionally and physically abusive. I left her at 15. Years later it’s “I don’t remember, I don’t remember,” to the point I wonder if I’ve exaggerated things in my mind. Except I talk to my siblings and realise I’ve actually toned it down in my memory.

Sure. But change starts with awareness. I’m #metoo, ive heard plenty of stories from friends, I know the statistics, but I was really shocked by just how many women I know who posted this. I think a lot of people are surprised by this. That’s where change is born. They’ll carry the awareness into their lives and it…

Exactly what I was thinking!

I’d wager your abilities still lurk beneath the veneer of safe rationality. I did the same thing you did, consciously shutting it out when i was 23. I can feel but not see presences, but my main gift was seeing/knowing the future. Usually small stuff that didn’t matter, or I’d just blurt something out and then it…

Where I live, you simply use Yelp. I’m similar to you, I’m waiting to be beckoned by a medium. I work a lot of open air markets in rural New agey places, the nearest town has a dozen or so mediums/psychics in residence... im just waiting for one to pick up on my questioning vibes and beckon me. Nothing yet, but if I…

I dont and never have understood going tubing in that river if you can’t swim. Ffs.

Ohhhhhh I thought you meant the gay realtor and his “first time.” God that one scares me.